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“I always knew looking back on my tears would bring me laughter, but I never knew looking back on my laughter would make me cry.”

– Cat Stevens

2016 is nearly over.  At this time of the year, I like to look back on the past, plan for the future, and enjoy the present.  Here’s a look back at the top posts on Jon Stolpe Stretched in 2016:

  1. 5 Lessons I Learned By Studying The Life of Joshua
  2. 5 Ways To Represent Well
  3. Ice Breaker – Giving Thanks at Thanksgiving
  4. 13 Delegation Quotes
  5. 3 Ways To Respond When Someone Is Unkind To You
  6. Ice Breaker – Superhero
  7. Ice Breaker – Star Wars
  8. Ice Breaker – Strengths
  9. How to Respond to the 2016 Election Results
  10. 7 Essentials For Overcoming Weariness

What was your favorite STRETCHED post from this past year?  What STRETCHED you the most in 2016?  Share your thoughts in the comments.

2000th Blog Post

August 2, 2016 — 6 Comments

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It’s when ordinary people rise above the expectations and seize the opportunity that milestones truly are reached.

Mike Huckabee

When the Israelites crossed the Jordan River into the Promised Land, they marked the occasion by setting up twelve stones as a reminder of the journey they had endured and as a reminder of their heritage.

Today, I write this post as a way of setting up a pile of stones to remind me of my journey and to mark a significant milestone on this journey.

I’m a numbers guy.  I count things and people and other crazy things all the time.  I even count blog posts.

Today, I’ve reached a milestone – my 2,000th blog post.

When I started blogging over nine years ago, I didn’t have plans or of intentions of reaching this target.  I simply planned to write one day at a time, and this remains my plan.

And yet, I think it’s important to stop to celebrate, reflect, and recognize this milestone in my own writing “career.”

When I graduated from high school, I specifically pursued a career in engineering to get me away from writing.  I did okay in high school English class, but it was a lot of work.  Math and science always came easier for me.  When I arrived at Grove City College, I soon learned that my high school English was necessary and important to help me survive and thrive in the collegiate environment.

When I graduated from college and pursued an engineering job, I figured my writing was finally behind me.  I was wrong.  I used my writing skills on a daily basis to write letters, memos, and emails to customers, clients, and coworkers.  I wrote technical documents on a regular basis to describe my engineering documents.

I couldn’t get away from writing.

And then, my friend introduced me to the blogging world.  And something changed.

I developed a new-found love for writing.  I enjoy the discipline of writing on a regular basis.  I appreciate the effort required to articulate the “stretchy” thoughts running around in my head.  And I like the process of putting something together for others to read.

Writing has provided an amazing opportunity for me to tap into the creative side of my brain.  And it has pushed me to new heights and helped to forge new friendships.

2,000 blog posts is a milestone, but it’s just a start.

I have more to say.  I have more to write.

Here’s to the next 2,000 blog posts.

Thanks for reading.  Thanks for commenting.  And thanks for being part of the Stretched Community.

How do you suggest I celebrate my 2,000th blog post?  Share your ideas in the comments.


Today, I consider myself the luckiest man on the face of the earth.

Lou Gehrig

9 years ago yesterday, I published the very first post on my blog.  In a couple of weeks, I will be pressing ‘Publish’ on my 2,000th blog post.

It all started when my friend, Frank, encouraged me and challenged me to start a blog.

When I started, I’m quite sure I didn’t know what I was getting myself into.

Blogging has been an incredible discipline in my life.  I’ve explored many areas of my thoughts on the “pages” of my blog.  I’ve stretched out loud, and I’ve challenged others to stretch on a variety of topics including:  marriage, family, parenting, faith, leadership, and missions.

Blogging has also been the springboard for my connection with people from around the world.  I’ve connected with people in Australia, Germany, England, and Canada (and many other countries).  I’ve connected with people in California, Texas, Georgia, Washington, and Hawaii.  I’ve even met people around my own community as a result of my blog.

Blogging has forced me to learn about SEO, affiliate marketing, guest posting, self-publishing, and list building.  And it’s made me realize how little I really know.

Blogging helped me realize a dream of publishing my first book.  It helped me take a leap of faith.  And it is helping me realize a goal of building 100 houses in Guatemala one house at a time.

In many respects, I feel like I’m just getting started.  I have more ideas to share.  I have more stretching to do.  And I have more to learn.

What will the next 9 years bring?  I sometimes wonder.  I’m hoping to write and publish more books.  I’m hoping to find a way to couple my love for writing and stretching others to support my love for building houses in Guatemala for widows.  I’m hoping to start a mastermind group for dads and husbands as a result of my blog.  I’m hoping to build a legacy for my family, my friends, and my followers.  And I’m hoping to keep stretching.

How does somebody blog for 9 years?  I sometimes get this question.  It starts with one idea – one blog post – at a time.  It starts with a willingness to be transparent and vulnerable and an understanding that everyone won’t like what you have to say.  It starts with an acceptance of imperfection.  And it starts with a decision to repeat it all again the next day or the next post.

I’m so glad I started down this journey 9 years ago, and I can’t wait to post again tomorrow!

When you’re in the day-to-day grind, it just seems like it’s another step along the way. But I find joy in the actual process, the journey, the work. It’s not the end. It’s not the end event.

Cal Ripken, Jr.

What were you doing 9 years ago?  If you started a blog today, what would you say?  Share your thoughts in the comments.

I’m Not Ignoring You

July 3, 2016 — 1 Comment


Every moment in our lives is a miracle we should enjoy instead of ignoring.

Yoko Ono

I’m not ignoring you.  I promise.

I’ve just been doing my best to pay attention to my wife this week.  We were in Vermont for the past week celebrating our 20th Anniversary (a few weeks early).

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It was a great week, and I did my best to unplug as much as possible and to practice the discipline of being present.

I’ll have some new posts this week.

Hope you are doing well!

What was one of your highlights from this past week?  Share your highlight in the comments.


Top Posts for May 2016:

  1. 5 Lessons I Learned By Studying The Life of Joshua
  2. 5 Ways To Represent Well
  3. Celebrating Parenting Milestones
  4. Ice Breaker – Star Wars
  5. Know Yourself – How To Get Started In Discovering The Real You
  6. 13 Delegation Quotes
  7. Never… Ever… Give Up Hope
  8. 3 Ways To Respond When Someone Is Unkind To You
  9. Guatemala – Clothing
  10. Ice Breaker – Bucket List

If you are a blogger, share your top post in the comments.

Which STRETCHED post was your favorite this month?  And why?

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Well, this is the start of it all… Time to get my stretch on.

I’ve been contemplating doing the blog thing for some time.  You might be wondering where the “Stretched” thing comes from.  For starters, when I was in high school at Rancocas Valley Regional High School, I was short – 5’6″ to start my junior year.  Since then, I’ve grown to almost 6’6″.  Many of my friends started calling me Stretch.

On a more recent basis, I often feel “stretched” by all the things going on around me – career, marriage, parenting, church, running, reading, friendships, extended family, relationship with God, etc. (in no particular order).  My hope is that this blog will provide an opportunity to express some of my “stretch marks” and to possibly hear your thoughts as well.

So here we go….

Until the next posting….