The Impossible

Over the weekend, our family sat down together to watch a movie.  There are times when it seems like we are running so quickly from one event or activity to the next.  It was so nice just to be still together in our own home for a couple of hours.  Leanne and Isaac picked out the movie from one of our local Redbox kiosks.  It seems like I am more and more out of the loop on the whole movie scene, so it’s no surprise that I had never heard of the movie they picked out – The Impossible.

The movie portrays the true story of a family caught in the ravages of a large tsunami that hit southeast Asia in 2004.  They family who is vacationing along the coast is separated and swept away when the giant wave decimates the resort where they were staying.  (Spoiler alert!)  Most of the movie is spent telling the story of their search for one another and of their eventual reunion.

Most of the movie is pretty graphic as it shows the tsunami along with the injuries that occurred as a result.  When Leanne told me what the movie was about, I was honestly not sure I wanted to see it.  Who wants to watch destruction?

I’m glad I stuck around to the end.  The movie was pretty powerful.  In fact, there were a couple of moments that brought tears to my eyes.  Along with the tears, the movie brought a few thoughts to my head that have been rolling around for a few days.

  • Our God would go to any lengths to connect with us.  In the movie, the father (played by Ewan McGregor) goes on a mission to find his oldest son and his wife.  He is determined to find them even if it meant leaving his two smaller children with strangers for a period of time.  As I thought about this aspect of the movie, I kept thinking about Jesus story of The Lost Sheep – the fact that he would leave the 99 sheep in order to find the one lost sheep.  Indeed, this is what our Father did when He sent His Son for us.  For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.  John 3:16
  • We play a role in helping people connect to their Father.  In the movie, Lucas (the oldest son) starts collecting the names of separated family members from complete strangers in the hospital.  He then walks through the entire hospital trying to find people to go with the names.  At one point, he finds a boy who goes with a father he had met earlier.  Their reunion is beautiful amidst the chaos and calamity of the hospital.  As Christ followers, we have a mission to help others connect to their Father.  This is not a mission to be taken lightly.  It’s urgent.  This is why we need to make the most of every opportunity.  Devote yourselves to prayer, being watchful and thankful. And pray for us, too, that God may open a door for our message, so that we may proclaim the mystery of Christ, for which I am in chains. Pray that I may proclaim it clearly, as I should. Be wise in the way you act toward outsiders; make the most of every opportunity. Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone.  Colossians 4:2-6
  • We’re called to help the least of these – the widows and the orphans.  In the movie, Lucas and his mother (played by Naomi Watts) are trying to get to higher ground when they hear the voice of a child screaming out for help.  They are in a tough situation themselves desperate for help when they make a decision to go help this little boy.  Jesus tells us in Matthew 25:31-46 that whenever we help the least of these, we are actually helping Him.  As I processed this part of the story, I kept going back to this verse in James:  Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world.  James 1:27

The circumstances of life can sometimes seem impossible.  We face trials of many kinds, and we can easily get caught up in our tunnel-visioned, self-focused reality.  It’s important to remember that we have a Father who loves us through thick and thin.  And it’s important to live our lives in a way that honors Him.  Believe it or not, The Impossible reminded me of this.

What are you facing today that is IMPOSSIBLE?  How does it help to know that there is a God who relentlessly pursues you?

Rally Night TONIGHT!

Rally Night

Tonight is a special night for our family.  And if you live in the area (Eastern Pennsylvania), we hope you’ll join us.  (If you live outside the area or can’t make it tonight, you can still help out!)

 

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From 5 PM until 7:30 PM, we’ll be holding a Rally Night at the Royersford Chick-Fil-A.  A percentage of all proceeds during this time will go towards our short-term missions trip to Guatemala this summer.  To date, we’ve raised $3,550 towards our trip.  The cost of our trip is right around $5,600.  You can find out more about how you can help with our trip by clicking here.

This summer, our family will be taking a journey to serve with GO! Ministries in the village of Santo Domingo Xenacoj in Guatemala.  During their trip, they will be working with widows and orphans in the village.  Specifically, we will be focusing on a feeding program, kid camp program, and direct service to widows.

 Hope to see you there.  And thanks for your support!

Ice Breaker – Vacation Plans

Each week on The Stretched Blog, I ask an ice breaker question.  The questions are designed to help us get to know each other here in The Stretched Community.  I’ll provide my answer to the question here in the post, and then you can leave your response in the comments.  While you’re in the comments section, see how others answered the ice breaker question.

For many, next weekend marks the beginning of summer.  People start traveling and taking time off from work to enjoy a break and to spend time with family and friends.  This week’s question will get you thinking about the summer ahead and will remind you of summer days of the past.

Question:  What are your vacation plans for this summer?  What’s one of the best vacations that you have ever experienced?

My Answer:  If you have been reading along for a little while, you’ll know our family is planning to go to Guatemala later this summer on a short-term missions trip to the village of Xenacoj.  Besides that, we are planning to take a swing through the Midwest (Illinois, Wisconsin, and Minnesota) to visit my family who live in that area.  In between visits with family, we’re also hoping to hit one of the water parks in the Wisconsin Dells.

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As for best vacations experienced, I would say that I really enjoyed the trip that Leanne and I took to France to celebrate our tenth anniversary.  We stayed in Paris for two days, the Louvre Valley for two days, the Bordeaux region for two days, near Marseilles for two days, and Lyon for two days.  It was wonderful to see the various sites of this beautiful country, and it was refreshing to spend uninterrupted time together with my bride.

Answer this week’s ice breaker question by leaving a comment.  I look forward to reading your response!  (As always, feel free to share links.)

The Stretched Blog Visits Joseph Lalonde – Leading From Our Hands And Our Knees

Today, I’m guest posting as part of The Network for Joe Lalonde at his blog, Joseph Lalonde.  In my post (Leading From Our Hands And Our Knees), I share some thoughts about servant-based leadership.  Here’s an excerpt to get you started.

How are your hands and knees?

For so many, leadership is all about a position of authority. When most people think of leadership, they think of someone sitting in the plush corner office. They think of someone sitting on a throne. Or they think of someone who stands tall above everyone else.

Authority is an important aspect of leadership, but there is something else leaders should consider.

Leaders lead best when they lead from their hands and knees.

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How could servant-based leadership impact your leadership effectiveness? What is one thing you can do this week to lead from your hands and knees?

Track & Field: 4 Lessons From The Relay Race

From a spectators standpoint, a track meet can seem like organized chaos.  There are athletes running on the track, walking in the stands, warming up in the parking lot, jumping, throwing, and socializing with other athletes.  If you attend enough meets, you begin to realize that there is a method and organization to the entire meet.

As a father, my favorite events are the one in which my kids are competing.  There nothing quite like cheering on your own kids.  Besides that, I especially love watching the relay races.  It’s fun to watch teammates cheering each other on, running as fast as possible, and passing the baton to their teammate.  A well polished relay team is so amazing to watch as the baton flows around the track from one athlete to the next to the next.

For those of you unfamiliar with relay racing at a typical track meet, the race is made of four legs each run by a different runner on the same team.  At the high school level, the typical relay races are the 4 x 100 (each runner runs one-quarter of the track), the 4 x 800 (each runner runs two laps of the track), and the 4 x 400 (each runner runs one lap of the track).

As I watched the relay races from the season, it was obvious which teams at practiced together and which teams needed a lot of work.  If I looked more closely at the relay race, I came up with 4 Lessons From The Relay Race that we can apply to everyday life:

  1. It takes a team effort.  It’s highly unlikely that one runner running the whole race could beat a team of four who have fresh legs.  Runners have to work together.  Each person on the team plays a key role in the effort and success of the whole.  In life, it is somewhat similar.  You play an important role in the body of Christ.  The body will not operate properly without YOU!  Paul talks about this in his first letter to the Corinthians:  The eye cannot say to the hand, “I don’t need you!” And the head cannot say to the feet, “I don’t need you!” On the contrary, those parts of the body that seem to be weaker are indispensable, and the parts that we think are less honorable we treat with special honor. And the parts that are unpresentable are treated with special modesty, while our presentable parts need no special treatment. But God has put the body together, giving greater honor to the parts that lacked it,so that there should be no division in the body, but that its parts should have equal concern for each other. If one part suffers, every part suffers with it; if one part is honored, every part rejoices with it.  I Corinthians 12:21-26
  2. The baton pass is critical.  Races are won and lost based on the pass of the baton.  There is a transfer of momentum from one runner to the next.  If a runner drops the baton, the race is over.  Each runner must run all the way through the transfer zone in order to make the most of each exchange.  In life, we will have opportunities to receive the baton from those who run before us, and we will eventually have the opportunity to pass the baton to those coming behind us.  In family life, my parents and grandparents have done an incredible job passing the baton to me at appropriate times, and it’s my responsibility to do the same for my kids (and eventually grandkids).  At work, it’s the same.  And in our spiritual lives, it’s important to have mentors in our lives along with people who we can mentor.
  3. Teammates cheer each other on.  Especially at the 4 x 400 relay race which typically ends each meet, the track is lined with teammates cheering as loud as they can for their fellow athletes.  The encouragement makes an incredible difference in the outcome of the race.  In life, we need to surround ourselves with others who can cheer us on.  And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds.  Hebrews 10:24  We were not meant to run the race of life in isolation.  We were meant for community.
  4. We need an anchor.  The 4th (and last) runner of each relay team is called the anchor.  This runner is typically the strongest, fastest runner on the team.  He is sometimes called upon to make up any difference left by the previous three runners.  It’s his job to leave it all on the track and to find any way possible to win.  We have an anchor – Jesus Christ.  He would go to any lengths to see us to the finish.  (In fact, He did this on the cross.)  Therefore, since we have been justified through faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ,through whom we have gained access by faith into this grace in which we now stand. And we boast in the hope of the glory of God. Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance;perseverance, character; and character, hope. And hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us. You see, at just the right time, when we were still powerless, Christ died for the ungodly. Very rarely will anyone die for a righteous person, though for a good person someone might possibly dare to die. But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.  Romans 5:1-8

What lessons could you add to the list above?  How have you experienced these relay lessons in your own life?  What baton are you currently carrying?  How are you preparing to pass the baton?

Answers From Me Part 5 – Favorite Phillies

Over the past several weeks, I’ve been answering questions that you posed to me in response to an Ice Breaker question.  Today’s question comes from TMZ (a Phillies fan who currently lives on the West Coast):

Who’s your favorite current Phillies player? Of all-time?

Okay, I’ll be honest.  I haven’t been following the Phillies as closely as I used to especially as they have fallen back into the middle of the pack.  I’m still a fan though.  And to answer TMZ’s question, I’d have to say that Chase Utley is my favorite current Phillies player.  His grit, determination, and pure hustle are a great example for other players to follow.

And my favorite Phillies player of all-time?  That’s easy.  Michael Jack Schmidt.  Schmidt played 3rd base for the Phillies when I moved to the Philadelphia area in 1980, and he is arguably the best 3rd baseman of all-time.  He certainly had his flaws as a sports personality in a tough town.  But he has stayed with the Phillies since his retirement as a coach and promoter.  I’d love to meet him at some point to talk about his faith, his family, and his career.  (Tim Gradoville, you were a close second place!)

There you have it, TMZ.  Who is your favorite Phillies player (past and present)?  If you’re not a Phillies fan, who is one of your favorite players and teams?

Track & Field: 6 Lessons From Long Distance Training

Coming off the trails for a lap around the field at The Thanksgiving Marathon

Yesterday, I ran in the first ever Servefest 5K.  It was a great event and a wonderful workout for my legs and lungs.  I’ve been running quite a bit these days, and the 5K was a great test to see how effective my training as been.  As I was out for my morning run this morning, I was thinking about the parallels between long distance training and life.  A couple of weeks ago, I posted some tips for those who are thinking about running a longer race for the first time.

As I was processing this post, I was thinking about things that inspire me in my running and in my life. For example, I’m inspired when I hear stories of people overcoming adversity to reach new heights. I think that’s why I like movies like Radio, Remember the Titans, and The Blind Side.

I’m also inspired by scripture. The scripture below is a great reminder to persevere and to keep the right focus.

Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles. And let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us, fixing our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of faith. For the joy set before him he endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. Consider him who endured such opposition from sinners, so that you will not grow weary and lose heart.  Hebrews 12:1-3

It is so easy to give up and to lose perspective when we face the challenges of life. As with my tips a couple of weeks ago, here are six tips that I have found helpful in keeping my eyes on the prize.

  1. Follow a plan. God’s Word should be the center of the plan. I have tried different methods for staying in God’s Word on my own, but I have found that existing plans are most helpful in keeping me on track. Two plans or programs that I have used recently to help me are YouVersion.com and The Daily Audio Bible.
  2. Find some accountability. Get plugged into a small group or even a one-on-one relationship where you can be challenged with the tough questions like: ‘Have you spend time in God’s Word this week?’ and ‘Have you lived with integrity since we last met?’
  3. Cross train and rest. There are some great resources out there to get the most out of your walk. I use several Bible-based blogs and books to give me a deeper perspective. Getting to church on a weekly basis is also important. This is a chance to be fed and to worship on a larger, corporate level. Also, take time to rest. We live very busy lives. We must take time to reflect and to rest.
  4. Practice. Practice. Practice. Get out and live your life. Make a concerted effort to go about your daily activities in a way that would honor God.
  5. Set goals but learn to be flexible with God’s direction. I’m a huge goal oriented person. Setting goals is a great way to keep focused. But we also need to be alert to the movement of the Spirit.
  6. Have fun and a positive attitude. God doesn’t promise that this life will be easy, but we have a choice to make. We can have a poor attitude when it comes to life’s ups and downs, or we can choose to have a positive attitude.

It’s amazing how these things line up with the tips from my earlier post.

So what inspires you in running and in life? What other tips would you add to the list above?

Ice Breaker – Mom

Each week on The Stretched Blog, I ask an ice breaker question.  The questions are designed to help us get to know each other here in The Stretched Community.  I’ll provide my answer to the question here in the post, and then you can leave your response in the comments.  While you’re in the comments section, see how others answered the ice breaker question.

This week’s question is inspired by my mom.  Sunday is Mother’s Day.  We all have something in common.  We all have a mom.  Here’s an opportunity to share something special about your mom.

Question:  What is one thing you appreciate about your mom?

My Answer:  There are many things I appreciate about my mom.  She’s an amazing cook.  She’s such a friendly and caring person.  And she’s a great Scrabble player.  These are all great things about my mom.  But the thing I think I appreciate the most about my mom is her faith.  She has an incredible faith in Christ.  She knows that she can take everything to God in prayer.  My dad who is a pastor will tell you that besides Christ, Mom is his bedrock.  Happy Mother’s Day!  I love you.

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Answer this week’s ice breaker question by leaving a comment.  I look forward to reading your response!  (As always, feel free to share links.)

Track & Field: 4 Lessons From The Hurdles

On Tuesday, I talked about four lessons from the starting blocks.  Today, I continue a new track and field series with four lessons from the hurdles.  This year, Isaac ran the hurdles.  It was fun watching him learn the ropes of the hurdles, and it will be interesting to see what happens as his track career continues.  At the high school level, one of Hannah’s track teammates is one of the best hurdlers in the state of Pennsylvania.  It was amazing to watch him compete in the hurdles at each meet.  There was a grace and elegance to the way he approached each hurdle.  He relentlessly attacked each hurdles until he reached the finish line victorious in each of the races I saw.

With that in mind, I’d like to suggest four things we can learn from the hurdles.

  1. Hurdles happen.  In the 110 meter hurdles, men have to jump over 42 inch hurdles.  When a runner leaves the starting block, he knows that there will be a hurdle.  Life is full of hurdles.  You and I will face hurdles.  We are not promised a clear path to the finish line.  As a matter of fact, hurdles add challenge to the race of life that could otherwise be flat and boring.  A true hurdler embraces the trial that each hurdle represents.  Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds,because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.  James 1:2-4
  2. It’s all about rhythm.  A hurdler learns to take the same number of steps between each hurdle.  It’s almost as though, he could run the race blindfolded.  Developing regular disciplines and routines can be helpful as we face the trials and challenges of life.  Spending time in God’s Word on a regular basis, praying, and spending time with other believers can be so beneficial in helping us when the challenges come.  The prophet Isaiah writes about the importance of seeking God regularly in the morning:  All night long I search for you; in the morning I earnestly seek for God.  For only when you come to judge the earth will people learn what is right.  Isaiah 26:9
  3. There will be another hurdle.  In the 110 meter hurdles, there are actually ten hurdles.  A runner gets over a hurdle, and there’s the promise of another hurdle.  In life it’s the same, we typically face more than one hurdle in life.  The cool thing is that God can use each and every hurdle we face for good.  The apostle Paul reminds us in his letter to the Romans:  And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.  Romans 8:28
  4. Keep going.  A hurdler cannot stop between hurdles.  He has to keep going.  When life seems too challenging, we need to rely on the strength of God.  Don’t give up.  Know that there is hope.  It starts with the next step.  One step at a time.  Do you not know?  Have you not heard?  The Lord is the everlasting God, the Creator of the ends of the earth.  He will not grow tired or weary, and his understanding no one can fathom.  He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak.  Even youths grow tired and weary, and young men stumble and fall; but those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength.  They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.  Isaiah 40:28-31

What lessons could you add to the list above?  What hurdles have you faced in life?  What have you learned through these challenges?

Answers From Me Part 4 – Biblical Dinner Party

Over the past several weeks, I’ve been answering questions that you posed to me in response to an Ice Breaker question.  Today’s question comes from Lulu:

If you could have a dinner party with characters from the Bible – which 3 would you invite? (Old or New Testament and not our Savior – as He is there anyways…ha ha.)

Thanks for the question, Lulu!  Here’s my answer.  David, Daniel, and Peter.  All three of these characters from the Bible were leaders and were remembered for their faith.  I consider David to be one of the original bloggers.  I’d love to tap into his creative mind.  I’d also love to meet the man who was known to be after God’s own heart.  Daniel also had tremendous faith.  I would tap into his inspirational story and learn more about his willingness to take a stand against what was against his beliefs.  And Peter was a bit crazy, but his faith is remarkable.  Anyone who would willingly get out of a boat in the middle of a storm and attempt to walk on water would be worth listening having at a dinner party.

And that’s my answer!

Now, it’s your turn.  Answer my Lulu’s question:  If you could have a dinner party with characters from the Bible – which 3 would you invite?