How’s that for a statement?
Seriously, I just finished reading QBQ! The Question Behind the Question: Practicing Personal Accountability at Work and in Life by John G. Miller, and I thought it was great. I had heard about the book from several people before, but I didn’t pick it up until recently.
I read a lot of books about leadership. I’ve read books which tell me how to lead my team through this situation or that situation. I’ve read books which tell me how to handle difficult team members and team members with different types of personalities. These books are good, but this QBQ! took it to another level for me.
QBQ! is all about leading myself. The book is not terribly long, and it’s broken down into bite-sized chapters which make it easy to get through. I’m a slow reader, and I read through QBQ! in a few sittings. It kept my attention and left me with lots plenty to ponder. I underlined and highlighted many parts of this book, and I’ll be referring to it again and again to help me become a better leader and a better person.
QBQ! challenges readers to stop complaining, procrastinating, and blaming. It stretches readers to practice personal accountability by asking the right questions.
I learned so much through QBQ!, and I would recommend this as a resource for anyone who wants to take their leadership and their relationships to the next level.
(Please note: I received a copy of QBQ! for free as part of a giveaway. I was not required to provide a favorable review. I truly believe this book can be a helpful reminder to any reader in helping them to take steps to become better leaders – at work, in the community, at church, and at home.
Also to note: There are affiliate links in this post. Should you purchase QBQ! by clicking one of these links, I receive a small percentage of the purchase. These funds are used to support The Stretched Blog and to extend ministry and missions to Guatemala. Thank you!)
I am a student of leadership. I want to be the best leader I can be. As a result, I read books about leadership; I read blogs about leadership; and listen to podcasts about leadership. I have a lot to learn still about leadership. But there are several things about leadership I’ve picked up so far. Here’s my list:
At some point, the leaders in your company, church, or organization will step down. They will retire. They will leave the organization. And they will leave a vacancy in leadership.
Who will step up and fill the leadership void?
Maybe it’s you!
I’m excited to announce the release of a new book by Jonathan Pearson. Next Up: 8 Shifts Great Young Leaders Make provides insight and advice for those who will fill the leadership gaps left by those who have gone before us.
I read Next Up with a keen interest. The book was an encouragement for me as I consider my own future opportunities to move further up the leadership ranks in my own endeavors. And it was also an encouragement as I consider how to encourage the future leaders of my organization.
In Next Up, Pearson provides 8 key shifts that every person must make to advance in their leadership mindsets. For example, he talks about the importance of shifting from unreliable to consistent and from passive to passionate.
If you are a leader or you want to be a leader, you need to pick up a copy of Next Up. It’s a powerful, quick read. You can pick it up, by clicking here.
(Please note: I received a copy of Next Up for free as part of a giveaway during the launch of this book. I was not required to provide a favorable review. I truly believe this book can be a helpful reminder to any reader in helping them to take steps to become better leaders – at work, in the community, at church, and at home.
Also to note: There are affiliate links in this post. Should you purchase Next Up by clicking one of these links, I receive a small percentage of the purchase. These funds are used to support The Stretched Blog and to extend ministry and missions to Guatemala. Thank you!)
One of the things I like most about my job is the fact that I have the opportunity to help people succeed. I am an operations manager for a construction company in the Philadelphia area. An important part of my job involves meeting company targets for revenue, cash, and operating margin. Another important part of my job involves developing my team. They need to keep growing – learning new skills, preparing for future opportunities, and taking on more responsibility.
Developing your team members does not happen by accident. It takes intentionality. If you are serious about helping your team members grow, here are a few ideas worth considering:
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One of my goals for 2014 is to guest post at least once a month.
Today, I’m sharing 5 Ways To Deliver Customer Service in a post titled This Is What Customer Service Looks Like. Ray Edwards was gracious enough to accept my guest post submission and I think you’ll like it. Please head over to the post by clicking here. While you’re there check out the other stuff Ray’s working on and consider subscribing to his blog.
To get you started, here’s a little blurb from my post:
This is what customer service looks like! Customer service looks like a jar of spiced apple rings? Yes! Let me explain…
I’m Swedish. As a child, I have fond memories of gathering around my grandparents table at Christmas time to feast on the Swedish Christmas culinary traditions. We ate my Grandpa’s Korv – a Swedish potato sausage. We ate my Grandma’s Swedish meatballs. We ate Swedish cheese, pickled herring, and Swedish breads. As part of the meal, I will always remember my Grandma setting out a dish of spiced apple rings.
Honestly, I’m not sure if spiced apple rings are Swedish. For me, the apple rings are part of the tradition.
My Grandpa passed away several years ago. My Grandma is now 93 years old, and she isn’t up to preparing the Swedish feast. Now it’s my turn. I make Korv for my family. My wife makes great Swedish meatballs. And we try to keep as many of the other traditions as possible. This still includes spiced apple rings.
The weekend before Christmas, my wife sent me to the grocery store to pick up a few final items for the feast. I found the pickled herring, the Swedish cheese, and even some lingonberry jam. But I couldn’t find the spiced apple rings. I searched everywhere without success.
Before giving up, I decided to ask an employee of the grocery store. The employee listened to my story about our family’s Swedish traditions. She proceeded to get a couple of her co-workers into the discussion as they tried to determine if the store had spiced apple rings. After searching a few places, checking a couple of lists, and calling some other employees, they informed me they didn’t have any in the store. I thanked them and headed to the checkout line.
This is where the story took a dramatic turn. [Click here to read the rest of the post.]
If you are visiting from Ray’s blog, I hope you stay for a little bit, check out a few of my other posts, and consider subscribing to The Stretched Community. Here are a couple of posts you may want to read:
When you think of customer service, what comes to mind?
I work in the construction world. Especially here on the east coast, it can be a cut-throat, brutal experience. People are clamoring to get ahead of the next person or to squash the competitors. Language choice is colorful to say the least, and sometimes the content of conversation makes the Howard Stern Show seem like a visit to Sunday School. Living and working in this environment can be a challenge especially for someone who is trying to follow Christ and to represent Him with integrity and character.
I’ve worked in the industry for nearly twenty years, and it hasn’t always been easy. I don’t always have the right words to say, and I sometimes regret the actions I’ve taken. I question myself wondering if I said what I should have said or if I did what I should have done. I want others to see my faith come alive in my words and in my actions. After twenty years, I sometimes wonder if I’m making a difference.
Sometimes it’s the simplest conversations or interactions which remind me I’m right where I’m supposed to be.
A few weeks ago, one of my team members came into my office to tell me about the struggle she was having outside the office. Her mom had been taken to the hospital. The doctors at the hospital informed my teammate and her family that their mother was in her final days. I listened for several minutes as my teammate explained the situation. As she was leaving my office, I asked her, “I know this isn’t the typical question you get in the office, but I’ll ask anyway. Is there something specific for which I can pray for you?” She responded very affirmatively.
Then late last week, another one of my team members stopped by to inform me his young son was being taken to the hospital in response to some type of virus or infection. I had the opportunity to listen to him and to offer my encouragement. He texted me a couple of times throughout the weekend to give me progress reports on his son’s improving condition. We didn’t have a major conversation, but I still had an opportunity to let him know I cared about him and his family.
It’s interactions like these which remind me I am making a difference.
I’ve been more aware of conversations and interactions with other employees throughout the office over the past couple of weeks. People want to know you care. They may carry around a rough exterior, but they are people who are going through all kinds of challenges and frustrations. They are crying out for someone to listen to them, and they are grasping to find the truth. As Christian leaders in the workplace, we have a huge opportunity to show our team members a glimpse of Christ. Will we always get it right? Probably not. But I’m convinced God can used messed up people like us to make a difference in the lives of others by shining His light. We shine God’s light by being alert to others, by making wise choices, by acting with integrity, and by speaking with truth and love.
I hope and pray I never lose sight of the opportunity to serve and represent Christ right where I am.
But in your hearts revere Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect… I Peter 3:15
How are you making a difference right where you are?
Each year around this time, I work with my employees to establish performance targets for the coming year. It can be a little challenging to fit everything in before the end of the calendar year. But target setting is vital to business success and individual performance.
This should be a fun month as I work with each of my team members in setting their individual performance targets.
What other reasons can you provide for setting individual performance targets? How have performance targets helped you as an employee or as a team leader?
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Last week, I shared 10 Essentials for Enhancing the Performance Management Process. There was lot of positive discussion surrounding the subject of how to improve the performance of your employees. Today, I want to tackle the topic of reward. Rewarding employees appropriately is a key aspect of improving employee performance. It’s essential that employees are recognized for a job well done. Sometimes this recognition is tied to a monetary reward, and sometimes it’s necessary to find non-monetary methods for rewarding your team.
Inappropriate rewards could easily work against the overall performance of the business and it’s employees. Rewarding employees who don’t deserve could be argued as grace, but this kind of “reward” sends the wrong message to employees, and it sets teams up for mediocrity.
Appropriate rewards push individual performance to new levels, and they raise the bar on overall company performance. Here are a few reward types for you to consider as you seek to improve your team and company.
I’m sure there are some other ways to reward employees. I’d love to hear your thoughts on the above list and your ideas for rewarding employees. Share your thoughts and ideas in the comments.
How do you reward your team members? How does your company reward its employees? Do you think rewards work? Why or why not?
This week, I’m in the middle of the performance management process for my team members. This is an annual opportunity to provide feedback to my team members on their performance over the past year. With 12 direct reports, it could be easy to rush through this process which is required by my company. I could simply write a couple of sentences about each team member and move on to the next year.
Taking this approach doesn’t do them any favors, and it doesn’t help my team or the company get better. A well thought out and carefully executed performance review can be the bedrock of success for your team and your company.
In today’s post, I offer ten ways to improve the performance management process. This is written from a managers perspective; however, this is a great reference for those who don’t manage direct reports. After reading today’s post, you may want to suggest that your supervisor start this type of performance management process for you. You may simply want to tweak what is already happening at your job.
Whether you are a manager of direct reports or not, I hope you’ll find this list helpful in understanding ways to get better. Success doesn’t happen by accident. Success happens by being intentional, and this list offers suggestions – no, essentials – for being intentional with the performance management process.
How has the performance management process helped you succeed? What would you add to the list above? What do you need to do differently in order to improve your own performance management process?
Today is an exciting day for my friend Dan Black. His new eBook launches today on Amazon.
The Leadership Mandate provides 10 practical and essential elements for developing leaders. This book is a helpful refresher for established leaders. But this book is not just written for people in positions of authority. The Leadership Mandate provides excellent advice for everyone who is serious about leading others or about leading themselves.
Dan Black has been blogging for quite a while about leadership. The Leadership Mandate focuses so much of Dan’s great daily blog content into a concise guide that will help you act like a leader. Dan presents 10 foundational things that will propel people to leading with influence and effectiveness. The Leadership Mandate teaches, and it challenges leaders to take action – to develop the leader inside you.
The Leadership Mandate is available starting today on Amazon.com for $2.99. Help my friend Dan out and help yourself out as well. Go pick up a copy today. Click the link below to get your copy today. As a special BONUS, Dan has put together a special package of extra material for anyone who purchases The Leadership Mandate between September 30th and October 7th. The BONUS package includes six great leadership books and tools (Vision Impact! by Bernard K. Haynes, Navigating Change by Ngina Otiende, The Little Guide To Figuring Out Your Dream by Kimanzi T. Constable, I’ve Been Promoted: Now What Do I Do? by Ernie Wenk, The Big Blog Push by Jared Latigo, and a discount on leadership coaching by Joe Lalonde). To get the BONUS, e-mail your receipt to Dan at danblackonleadership@gmail.com. To get more details on the BONUS, click here.
What do you think are the most essential elements of a leader?
(Please note: I received a copy of The Leadership Mandate for free in exchange for a review. I was not required to provide a favorable review. I truly believe this book can be a helpful reminder to any reader in helping them to take steps to become better leaders – at work, in the community, at church, and at home. It’s my honor to be part of the launch team for Dan’s new book.
Also to note: There are affiliate links in this post. Should you purchase The Leadership Mandate by clicking one of these links, I receive a small percentage of the purchase. These funds are used to support The Stretched Blog and to extend ministry and missions to Guatemala. Thank you!)