The Voice Over

A voice-over is a production technique where a voice—that is not part of the narrative—is used in a some type of presentation.  [See Wikipedia.]

Earlier this week, I posted about two different voices I heard Sunday night.  In the post, I wrote about the importance of relying on God’s Voice and about listening to positive voices in our lives.  While I stand on The Voice that reminds me that I matter, I keep going back to the first voice.  If you recall, this was a voice of someone telling me I wasn’t needed.  I haven’t been dwelling on his words.  But I have been thinking about him.  In fact, thoughts have been running through my head like a voice-over as I rehash this experience.

As the girl in our youth group was getting baptized, I watched this man from the corner of my eye as he observed the service.  He did not appear to be a participant but more of an outsider looking in.

Sure the baptism service was an opportunity for believers to celebrate the decision of someone to follow Christ.  And it was a chance for the young girl to publicly state that Jesus is the leader and forgiver of her life.  But the service was also a reminder to me that there are others out there who are still lost.

For the Son of Man came to seek and to save the lost.  Luke 19:10

Christ came for the owner of the first voice that I heard on Sunday.  Obviously, I don’t know the true condition of his heart, but I can presume that he wasn’t on the same page spiritually as many of those in the room.

The cool thing is that he felt comfortable coming into our church.  There are many churches out there.  Many of them say they want to reach out to the lost, but lots of churches fail when it comes to showing Christ’s love in a way that attracts, convinces, and accepts the lost.  In fact, many churches won’t let “outsiders” in to hang out – divorcees, adulterers, homosexuals, and thieves.  This isn’t meant to discourage churches from speaking the truth.  It’s more of a challenge to consider how we can have an impact on the lost of this world.  After all, we’re called to flee from sin, but we’re called to love everyone – and to go into ALL the world to share God’s message of hope and love.  Christ set the example for us.  He hung out with the “outsiders”.

Now the tax collectors and sinners were all gathering around to hear Jesus.  But the Pharisees and the teachers of the law muttered, “This man welcomes sinners and eats with them.”  Then Jesus told them this parable:“Suppose one of you has a hundred sheep and loses one of them. Doesn’t he leave the ninety-nine in the open country and go after the lost sheep until he finds it? And when he finds it, he joyfully puts it on his shoulders and goes home. Then he calls his friends and neighbors together and says, ‘Rejoice with me; I have found my lost sheep.’ I tell you that in the same way there will be more rejoicing in heaven over one sinner who repents than over ninety-nine righteous persons who do not need to repent.” Luke 15:1-7

Over and over again, I hear that voice from Sunday night.  Again, I don’t hear the words, but I hear the reminder – God loves the lost, and He’s calling us to hang out with the “outsiders”.  I hear the voice-over calling me to keep stretching and growing.

When have you heard voice-overs in your life that cause you to stretch?  How are you intentionally hanging out with the “outsiders”?

Love Works Wednesday Link Up Conclusion

Today marks the conclusion of the Wednesday series based on Love Works by Joel Manby.  Some of you maybe happy; some sad; and some just plain indifferent.  In today’s post, Bill Grandi (The Cycleguy) and I wrap up this 10 week discussion.  I hope you’ve learned something along the way and been challenged as well.  Check out Bill’s take by clicking here.

To help you recap, here are the posts from the series:

What did I learn from this series?  Ten weeks go by pretty quickly.  It has been a real pleasure to link up with Bill on a regular basis like this, and it’s been very interesting to get your input into the discussion each week through the conversation in the comments.  Bill’s posts tended to focus on leadership from a ministry perspective, and my posts leaned more towards corporate leadership.  I think it has been reaffirming to see that love based leadership can apply to various locations of leadership – the church, the office, the home, and elsewhere.  Though I had read the book before, I was reminded that you and I can make a difference when we choose to lead with love.

Now it’s your turn.  What is one thing you learned through this series?  What principle stretched you the most?  How has your leadership been transformed by Love Works?

The Voice – Which Voice Will You Listen To?

Which voice will you listen to? The one that says you are not needed, or the one that says you matter? I heard both these voices the other night. I choose to hear that I matter.

Let me explain.  Sunday night, I was helping out at the youth group by serving as one of the adult leaders.  I’ve been volunteering with RIOT (the name of the group) since I went to Guatemala with 25 of the students from the group.  Over the past several months, I’ve seen lives changed and relationships strengthened.

Part of the life change I’ve seen is when students make a decision to follow Christ and get baptized.  On Sunday night, one of the students made that decision and was baptized at the end of Sunday night.  As the baptism service was starting two older gentlemen walked in who weren’t normally part the adult volunteers.  I figured they must be related to the girl getting baptized, so I walked over and tried to help them to the front so they could get a better view of the baptism.  As I asked if I could help them, I was quickly reprimanded.by the older man.  He told me, “I don’t need your help.  If I needed your help, I would have asked for it.”  Okay.  I was just trying to be helpful.

This was one of the voices I heard the other night.  I could choose to dwell on that voice – a voice telling me I’m not needed.

As I was leaving the church Sunday night, I heard another voice.  Our youth pastor grabbed me as I was walking out the door, and he said “What you do matters.  Thank you for being here tonight.”

What a contrast!  It was as if I had two different people sitting on my shoulder.  One was saying, “You stink.”  The other was saying, “You’re the best!”

We hear voices like this all the time.  “You can’t do it.”  “Get away from me.”  “You’re a loser.”  “You’re not wanted.”

But there’s another Voice we need to listen to.  Sure it could be a youth pastor, a good friend, or a family member.  But there’s a Voice we all need to hear.  It’s God’s voice, and he wants us to know we are special – we’re made with a purpose – we are fearfully and wonderfully made.  What we do matters.  And more importantly, you and I matter to God.

For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb.  I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.Psalm 139:13-14

 

“For I know the plans I have for you,”declares the Lord,“plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”Jeremiah 29:11

 

The Lord your God is with you, the Mighty Warrior who saves.  He will take great delight in you; in his love he will no longer rebuke you, but will rejoice over you with singing.Zephaniah 3:17

 

I don’t know your history or what you’re going through right now, but this is the Voice that you need to hear right now.

Who has been a positive voice in your life?  What have your heard from these voices (and from The Voice)?

Book Review: Platform by Michael Hyatt

Platform: Get Noticed in a Noisy World by Michael Hyatt provides a step-by-step guide for getting people to listen to what you have to say.  This book has been on my “To Read List” for sometime.  I’m glad a finally got the chance to read Platform, and it will be a part of my library that I go back to again and again.

In Platform, Michael Hyatt writes over 50 chapters that will help readers get noticed in today’s social media driven world.  Each of these chapters which reads like a blog post can stand alone but when put together provide a comprehensive look at growing your platform.  As a fellow blogger, Michael Hyatt’s story and advice relate pretty well to my own platform.  Even if you’re not a blogger, Hyatt’s knowledge can be applied to those who are creating a podcast, a book, a blog, or anything else that involves your voice.

Platform has definitely left me with lots to think about, and it’s an essential reference for bloggers, authors, and speakers.  I’d recommend Platform to anyone who wants to get noticed in this noisy world.

How could establishing and growing your platform help you to get heard?  What do you have to share that is worth being heard?  What’s your platform?  What would a platform make possible for you?

Ice Breaker – Share Your Blog Link

Each week on The Stretched Blog, we ask an ice breaker question.  The questions are designed to help us get to know each other here in The Stretched Community.  I’ll provide my answer to the question here in the post, and then you can leave your response in the comments.  While you’re in the comments section, see how others answered the ice breaker question.

This week has me thinking a lot about blogging.  On Monday, I reached a milestone with my 1,000th blog post.  And yesterday, Google announced the upcoming retirement of Google Reader (an RSS blog reader that I use to keep up on the many blogs I read on a regular basis).

Question:  If you are a blogger, share the link to you blog along with a brief description of your blog.  Then share the link to one of your favorite blogs and explain why it’s one of your favorites.

My Answer:  Well…you already have the link to my blog.  And trying to pick one blog out of all the ones I follow is pretty tough.  This one though has definitely earned my attention more recently:

http://www.mattmcwilliams.com/  This has become one of my favorites over the past several months.  Matt consistently features practical tips and advice for leaders.  Check it out!

There you have it – my answer.  Now, it’s your turn.  Answer this week’s ice breaker question by leaving a comment.  I look forward to reading your response!  (Feel free to share links.)

 

Stretching Beyond My Comfort Zone

I am so excited to share guest blogger Eileen Knowles.  Eileen guest posted here back in July 2012 while I was in Guatemala (Living the Lessons).  Today, she shares about a recent STRETCHING experience in which she references a recent blog post – Stepping Out Of My Comfort Zone…My First Vlog.  Please read her post, answer the questions, and stop by Eileen’s blog for more great writing.

(I’d love to share your STRETCHED story with The Stretched Community.  Let me know if you’re interested in becoming a guest blogger here by leaving a comment.)

Last week, I tried something new and scary on my blog. I stretched out of my comfort zone. I came out from behind my computer screen and recorded a video post. And, not only that, the Lord was prompting me to share a portion of my journey in recovery and freedom from addiction.

I’ve shared my story before on my blog, but never in front of a camera. I sometimes find it amusing how God decides to work when He prompts us to move beyond the familiar. He didn’t call me to simply show my face and talk about something lighthearted and safe.

If God had left it completely up to me, I would have LOVED to talk about coffee.  I love coffee.  Other people I know love coffee.  Wouldn’t being in front of a camera talking about something like this be a nice place to start when we choose to follow God out into unknown territory?

But, God had a different plan for me last week. And, His plan didn’t involve a small timid step. His plan involved a bigger leap of faith.

Eileen…share what I’ve done in your life. Encourage people to not give up. Remind them that they are not alone in their struggles. Tell them about freedom!

I was reminded last week that God never calls us out in order for us to play it safe. There will always be risk involved when He invites us to take a leap of faith. Yet, if we choose not to trust Him or to follow His lead, we risk something far greater.

As I stretched beyond my comfort zone last week, it was this beautiful what-if question that carried me forward.

What if by taking this risk God uses me to help just one person move from captivity to freedom?

God desires to use each of us in a unique way…and, most likely, the journey will involve some scary stretching!  [Click to Tweet]

Take a moment a think back on your most recent trip out of your comfort zone.
What was the result?
What did you learn?

Eileen Knowles is a small town Arizona girl who studied English at The University of Arizona a long, long time ago. She now lives in small town North Carolina with her husband, Roger, their nine-year old son, and one quirky dog named Bisbee. When she is not working part-time as a Virtual Assistant for eaHelp, she thoroughly enjoys drinking coffee, running, playing Scrabble, and writing about how cool it is to journey through life with Jesus holding her hand.

Eileen is passionate about leaving a legacy for her son and encouraging others along the way who might need a dose of hope poured into their weary lives.

You can find her taking at The Scenic Route

Twitter: https://twitter.com/cupojoegirl
Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/eileen.knowles.9

Google Reader Retiring

 

Google Reader will be retired on July 1, 2013.

 

This is the message that popped up when I went into Google Reader tonight.  Bummer!

What blog readers do you recommend? And what is Google thinking?

Love Works Wednesday Linkup Week 9

We continue the Wednesday series based on Love Works by Joel Manby.  In today’s post, Bill Grandi (The Cycleguy) and I are discussing the tenth chapter (A Choice You Make).  Check out Bill’s take by clicking here.

Since I already read the book, I thought it would be interesting to highlight some of the sentences I underlined when I read the book initially:

  • “’Profitability is a necessary condition for existence and a means to more important ends, but it is not the end in itself for visionary companies.  Profit is like oxygen, food, water, and blood for the body; they are not the point of life, but without them, there is no life.'”  Jim Collins – Author of Built to Last (p. 171)
  • “Enduring and successful companies are more ideologically driven and less purely profit focused than companies that don’t perform as well financially.”  (p. 171)
  • “‘There are two essential activities that take time:  developing an organization and developing a brand.  Those activities are parallel and interdependent.  Leadership is about teaching an organization what you stand for; brand building is about teaching millions of consumers what you stand for.  Leadership and brand building require time, consistency, and constancy.'” Joe Kennedy – CEO of Pandora  (p. 173)
  • “Shaping corporate culture is up to individuals across the hierarchy, no matter what their job title is.  Any of us can make a real difference.” (p. 175)
  • “Never lose an opportunity to bring sunshine into the life of another.  A few encouraging words could make a huge difference in someone’s life. (p. 176)
  • “Leading with love is too important to be left to chance.  It takes effort to lead with the principles of love – to be patient, kind, trustful, unselfish, truthful, forgiving, and dedicated.”  (p. 182)

We live in a time of entitlement – at least here in America.  People think that things should be handed to them and that the hard work of making things better belongs to others.  Many people are looking to their organizations, to other organizations, and to the government to take the leading role in changing the world.

While organizations and political entities may play a role in this change, I’m convinced that true change will only happen when individuals stand up and decide to take action.  Love based leadership is up to you and me.  We can’t wait for others to jump on board and take charge.  We have to be the trailblazers in our companies, in our churches, in our communities, and even in our homes.

We all have a choice to make.  We can sit around waiting for the world to change.  Or we can be the change that the world needs.  It starts with us leading with love.  As Manby states in this chapter, it doesn’t matter whether you’re the CEO, a mid-level manager, a front-line employee, or the janitor.  How you live and act will impact your span of influence.  From there it will spread like ripples in a still pond until the whole body of water is impacted.

Choose today to lead with love.  Choose to make a difference.  Choose to set the tone where ever you are today.

Next week, Bill and I will conclude our exploration of Love Works and love based leadership.  It’s been a great adventure.  Be sure to check out next week Wednesday’s post for the conclusion of the series.  (And don’t forget to stop back every day between now and then for more great Stretched content.)

How will YOU make a difference TODAY?  What will you do to lead with LOVE today?  What difference have you seen around you when one person decides to take action?

How To Use Milestones To Kick-Start A New Thing

A New Thing

See, I am doing a new thing!  Now it springs up; do you not perceive it?  I am making a way in the wilderness and streams in the wasteland.  Isaiah 43:19

Yesterday was a big day on The Stretched Blog as we celebrated the 1,000th post.  Milestones like this are great as they permit us to reflect on where we’ve come from and what we’ve accomplished.  Thank you to everyone who shared thoughts and good wishes to help celebrate this big event.  It’s important to pause and commemorate achievements like this.

It’s also important to keep going – to start again (and again).  Milestones like yesterday should be a reminder that each day represents a new beginning.  I love the verse from Isaiah mentioned above.

While today is the 1,001st Stretched Blog post, it is also the first blog post of the new thing that God is doing in my life (and here at The Stretched Blog)  starting today.  I’m so thankful and excited for the new things that await me and The Stretched Community.

How To Use Milestones To Kick-Start A New Thing:

  1. Keep track of what going on in your life.  Whether it’s a journal, a blog, a photo album, or a really good memory, documenting our past is such a great way to learn and to recognize growth.
  2. Pause, commemorate, and celebrate.  Don’t rush my the milestones without taking time to reflect and to be thankful.  Just like the Israelites setup 12 stones when they crossed the Jordan River (see Joshua 4), it’s important for us to set up monuments to remind us of God’s mercy and provision in our lives.  Yesterday’s post was a “12 stone post” for me.
  3. Keep going.  The Israelites didn’t camp out at the 12 stone monument.  They kept moving into the Promised Land.  Similarly, we need to keep going.  There is a new thing waiting for us as we head into our Promised Land.
  4. Repeat.  Repeat.  Repeat.  There will be more milestones to celebrate.  And there will be more new things ahead.  Don’t stop.  Don’t rest on your laurels.

What milestones can you celebrate today?  And what new thing is God doing in your life?

1000 Miles – 1000 Blog Posts – Celebrating A Milestone

Celebrating 1000

You’re reading the 1,000th Stretched Blog Post.

When I started blogging several years ago, I never envisioned that I’d write this many posts.  I simply set out to record my STRETCH marks.  My main goal of The Stretched Blog remains the same today as it was  when I first started – To process life’s experiences and to bring glory to God.  While that goal has been constant, other amazing outcomes have emerged.  Primarily, I have been so blessed to meet so many people from across the country and around the world.  The Stretched Community has been a huge blessing in my life.  Along the way, I hope I’ve encouraged and STRETCHED you.  Thank you for reading, for commenting, and for sticking with me along this journey.

Here are a few highlights from the first 1000 Stretch Posts:

  • July 6, 2007 – The first post was actually untitled.  This post provided an introduction to The Stretched Blog.
  • July 7, 2007 – D.C. Talk introduced our family vacation to Washington D.C.  It’s funny to see the picture of Isaac who would have been 7 years old on this trip.
  • July 30, 2008 – It took a little over a year, but I made it to 100 posts with this one titled, In Search of Treadmill.
  • October 21, 2011 – We celebrated the 500th Stretched Post with a guest post by Arny Sanchez – Field of Changed Dreams?
  • February 27, 2012 – I wrote a post about my experience at a recent FamilyLife Weekend to Remember Marriage Conference.  This post has been the most visited post of all time – Ten Reasons To Attend FamilyLife Weekend To Remember.
  • March 21, 2012 – It’s hard to pick out one favorite from among the first 1,000 posts, but this one stands out as one my favorites – Leap of Faith.
  • November 7, 2012 – This was a day I won’t soon forget.  I posted How To Respond To The Election Results which drove the biggest single day of traffic on the blog.
  • 328,000 words written to date!  Crazy!

Where do we go from here?

I plan to continue to write.  I don’t have a number of posts in mind, but I hope we can celebrate these kind of milestones every so often.  And I hope that I ultimately point people to Christ as I continue to share more STRETCHED stories and thoughts.

When did you start reading The Stretched Blog?  Which post stands out to you as one of your favorites so far?  How have you been stretched by being part of The Stretched Community?

As I was preparing for this milestone post, I came across this song by Mark Schultz – 1,000 miles.  I think the words speak well to where I’ve been and where I hope to go – not just here on The Stretched Blog, but for life in general.  Enjoy!

Short Film – 1000 Miles by Mark Schultz from Ben Salzmann on Vimeo.