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I spent most of the day on Saturday at the track helping out at the 7th Annual Viking Track & Field Invitational hosted by my daughter’s track team. The day was absolutely beautiful and perfect for a track meet.
I was recruited to help out with checking in runners and handing out lane assignments before each of the races. With twenty-five teams participating, it was a pretty busy job. I had a great time working with the other “clerks” who had also volunteered in an effort to support their kids and the track team.
A minor mix-up happened at the end of the day that resulted in a relay team being assigned a heat and lane that didn’t necessarily match up with their seeding time. The coach of the team came over to express his frustration with the situation, and I initially jumped in to explain what may have happened.
Eventually, I sent the coach to the officials tent at the finishing line. I did not hear from the coach again, but our team’s track coach came over to find out what have happened at check in. I told the coach how I made a mistake checking in the team after the team was late in checking in for the race. I took partial blame for the problem, but I pushed it back at the team for failing to check in on time. After I explained the story, our coach said something like, “That was our fault. We screwed up.”
The coach didn’t push blame on the other team. He took responsibility. And he moved on.
So often when confronted with a problem, we seek to shift blame. We don’t want to take responsibility. We are typically looking to blame someone else. We say things like, “I didn’t check them in correctly, BUT they were late checking in.”
It’s time we took responsibility. We must learn to take the BUT out of our responses. My story should have simply been, “I didn’t check them in correctly.” Period. No BUT….
I should have apologized to the coach and sent him to the officials tent (the officials were the only ones who could change the lane assignments). Mistakes happen. We need to take responsibility for our mistakes. And we need to move on.
Hopefully, this didn’t ruin the day for the coach and his team. It was a beautiful day for a track meet, and the rest of the meet seemed to go very well.
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