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    6 Essentials for Finding Meaning in Your Life

    6 ESSENTIALS FOR FINDING MEANING IN YOUR LIFE

    What is the meaning of life?  This is a question people have been asking themselves for ages.

    Meaningless.  Meaningless.  Chasing after the wind.

    “Meaningless! Meaningless!” says the Teacher.  “Utterly meaningless!  Everything is meaningless.”  Ecclesiastes 1:2

    Too many of us go after things in life that really are meaningless.  When we step back and look at it from a different perspective, we realize that we had our ladder leaned up against the wrong wall, and we’ve been climbing to the top only to realize that we were climbing against the wrong wall.

    This week I received some tough news that reminded me that this life is fleeting – it’s short.  And we will endure problems, trials, and illnesses, and we will eventually come to a realization that a lot of the things we are pursuing in life really don’t matter when it comes down to it.

    I don’t know about you, but I want my life to mean something.  I want to pursue things that matter.  I don’t want to waste my time doing things that won’t add up to a hill of beans.  I want to be intentional with how I live my life – on a day by day basis and on a moment by moment basis.

    Our perspective changes as we go through life.  We see things through different lenses along the way, and sometimes I think that we go through trials in life to re-calibrate us – to reset our vision.  I think this might be happening through my experience this week – in the tough circumstances that I’m wrestling with in my own mind.

    What are your priorities and what are you doing about them?  Do you know them?  Have you stopped long enough to pay attention – to really process the priorities that you have in your life? 

    Is it work?  Is it achievement?  Is it notoriety?  Is it fame?  Is it your family?  Is it your faith?  Is it financial freedom?

    All these things are okay, but are they really your priorities?  Have you stopped long enough to really analyze what matters most in life?

    Once you know your priorities, it’s important to map out how you’re going to get there.

    What are you going to do?  How are you going to change your life to live in light of those priorities?

    I cannot answer that question for you.  This is a question you need to answer for yourself.

    I just finished listening to a new book, Living Forward, by Michael Hyatt and Daniel Harkavy, and they challenge readers to consider writing their own eulogy.

    What would you want people to stay at your funeral?  If this is what you want people to say, how are you living your life to prepare for this?

    I don’t know how everything is going to work out with the situation I’m facing, but I do know I have the opportunity to really analyze my priorities and shift some of my perspectives.  And just maybe I will come down from the ladder that I was climbing on to make sure I have it positioned against the correct wall.

    This is the challenge I leave you with today:  Is your ladder leaning against the correct wall, or are you chasing things that are meaningless?

    Live a life that matters.

    Pursue your priorities.  Carefully consider your priorities.  Gain new perspective, and live your life with intention. 

    More importantly, what I’m learning through this experience is the importance of relationships.  You can pursue all kinds of achievement and accolades and everything, but the reality is the relationships that you have with others matters so much more than those career positions and promotions, those super-large portfolios, and those trophies.  Take time today to connect with those who matter most in your life.  And then repeat every day for the rest of your life.

    If you want to find meaning in your life:

    6 Essentials for Finding Meaning in Your Life

    1. Look in the mirror.
    2. Determine your priorities.
    3. Live intentionally in light of your priorities.
    4. Plug into key relationships.
    5. Above all else, seek God first.
    6. Repeat for the rest of your life.

    What is the meaning of your life?  Knowing this, how are you living your life?  Share your thoughts in the comments.