Top Posts of 2011 Number 3 – Reflect More, Risk More, Leave A Legacy – Start Blogging (A Guest Post by Jason Fountain)
As I mentioned last week, my plan is to provide links to the top Stretched posts from 2011 over the next couple of weeks. This provides an excellent opportunity for me to take a small break during the holidays, and it also provides an incredible opportunity for you to catch up on things you may have missed over the past year. I hope you’ll hop on over to the original post, so you can read the entire post and add your comments to the existing comments string.
The 3rd most popular Stretched post from 2011 was a guest post by my friend Jason Fountain. The post is titled Reflect More, Risk More, Leave A Legacy – Start Blogging. Here’s an excerpt to get you going:
Reflect More, Risk More, Leave A Legacy – Start Blogging
John Maxwell relates a story shared by sociologist Anthony Campolo. Campolo tells about a group of 50 people over the age of 90 years old who were asked one question: If you could live your life over again, what would you do differently?
The question was open-ended and the people’s answers were varied. However, three ideas consistently emerged.
1. If I had it to do over again, I would reflect more.
2. If I had it to do over again, I would risk more.
3. If I had it to do over again, I would do more things that would live on after I am dead.
I want to share with you an idea that can help you begin to accomplish all three of these goals TODAY.
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To read the rest of this post, head on over to the original Reflect More, Risk More, Leave A Legacy – Start Blogging post.
What would you change about 2011?
What is one thing that you’re looking forward to in 2012?
Christmas Eve 2011 Week In Review…
What a great week here at the Stretched Blog. The blog traffic is up for the week, and we’re already running a higher page view total than last month. If we can keep it up this week (which could be tough over the holidays), the Stretched Blog may see its highest page views per month total ever!
Monday’s post was titled My Treasure & My Heart was an opportunity to share some of my wrestling over time and priorities. I really appreciate the empathy and encouragement expressed in the comments for this post. Tuesday brought a visit from Jonathan Pearson. Jonathan did an excellent job sharing the stretching of a young leader. Wednesday, I started to share the top 5 posts for the year. The number 5 post for the year was a great guest post by my wonderful wife. She shared about Detours that she has experienced over the past year or two. On Thursday, I shared the 4th most popular Stretched post of 2011 – Locks of Love – about my daughter’s generous donation. And finally and Friday, I shared another fun Ice Breaker about our favorite toys.
I am so thankful for your continued contribution to the blog through comments. Your comments are what makes this Stretched Community! Please remember to take the time to Subscribe to the blog, so you can have Stretched delivered daily to your e-mail inbox. Also, don’t forget to stop by the Jon Stolpe Stretched Facebook fan page. Become a fan to keep up with some additional Stretched stuff. I have started to share more blog highlights from other blogs that I read regularly. I think you’ll find some great stuff here. Thanks!
A few of my favorite posts from the rest of the blogging community this week:
- Questions To Ask For Reviewing 2011 by Brad Lomenick on BradLomenick.com
- I Dare You To Do This With Me by Jon Acuff on JonAcuff.com
- The Only Way To Become A Real Writer by Jeff Goins on GoinsWriter.com
I’m really excited about this upcoming week as I’ll be sharing the top 3 posts for 2011, and I’ll be preparing for the new year! Please stop back so you can see what’s going on here!
How about you? How was your week? If you’re a blogger what happened over your way this week? Did you read any great blog posts this week? Share with the rest of us!
Ice Breaker – Favorite Toy
It’s that time of the week again…one more ice breaker question before Christmas! I’m going to stay with a Christmas related question again for one more week. For those of you who are new or who forgot, ice breaker questions are used to help people get to know each other – to “break the ice” so to speak. I love hearing what other people have to say and how they think. So for today, I’m excited to throw out another simple ice breaker question. I’ll answer it first, then it’s your turn. Answer the question by leaving a comment for us all to enjoy. Thanks!
Question: What was one of your favorite toys as a child?
My Answer: Here you go….
I can think of several of my favorite toys growing up like Matchbox and Hot Wheels cars, Legos, Lincoln Logs, and Tinker Toys. To be honest, I still love playing with these things. But there’s one toy I wish I still had – The Green Machine. For those of you who didn’t grow up in the late 70s and early 80s, The Green Machine was the Michael Jordan of Big Wheels. The Green Machine had two handles that you used to steer the back two wheels, and it was longer and lower to the ground than the typical Big Wheel. I still remember riding my Green Machine down the street and picking up as much speed as possible. When I reached top speed. I would push one of the handles forward and pull the other handle back. This would throw The Green Machine into an incredible spin as the plastic wheels slid across the pavement. My understanding is that they actually make an adult size version of this classic. Maybe next Christmas…!
So there you have it, my answer to the question. Now it’s your turn….I can’t wait to hear what you’ve got to say!
Top Posts of 2011 Number 4 – Locks of Love
As I shared yesterday, my plan is to provide links to the top Stretched posts from 2011 over the next couple of weeks. This provides an excellent opportunity for me to take a small break during the holidays, and it also provides an incredible opportunity for you to catch up on things you may have missed over the past year. I hope you’ll hop on over to the original post, so you can read the entire post and add your comments to the existing comments string.
The 4th most popular Stretched post from 2011 was a post about my daughter and her sacrificial gift. The post is titled Locks of Love. Here’s an excerpt to get you going:
The generous heart of my daughter never ceases to amaze me. As you can see by the pictures, Hannah decided several months ago to grow her hair out, so she could donate to Locks of Love. Locks of Love provides wigs for children who are facing hair loss for various reasons. Hair is a big deal for girls, women, and kids. So when Hannah decided to have her hair cut so someone else could enjoy a head of hair, it was quite a sacrifice – at least in my mind.
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To read the rest of this post and to see more pictures of Hannah’s transformation, head on over to the original Locks of Love post.
When and where was the last time you got your haircut?
What was one of your favorite posts this year?
Top Posts of 2011 Number 5 – Detours – A Guest Post by Leanne Stolpe
Over the next couple of weeks, I’m going to provide links to the top Stretched posts from 2011. This provides an excellent opportunity for me to take a small break during the holidays, and it also provides an incredible opportunity for you to catch up on things you may have missed over the past year. I hope you’ll hop on over to the original post, so you can read the entire post and add your comments to the existing comments string.
The 5th most popular Stretched post from 2011 was a guest post written by my wife, Leanne. Here’s an excerpt to get you going:
This week I took a day off and went to the beach. This is something I used to do a couple of times a year but recently haven’t done for quite some time. So, it was a big deal to me. I filled up my tank with gas. I packed a picnic lunch, and figured out my directions. I put my tunes in the cd player and started on my trip. I didn’t even get on the turnpike when there was a detour – right at the start of my trip!
It reminded me of how this past year seemed like a detour in many ways.
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To read the rest of this great post, head on over to the original Detours post. I promise it’s worth the visit.
When was the last time you took a detour?
What was one of your top posts this year?
Potential, Position, and Pain (A Guest Post by Jonathan Pearson)
Today, I have the privilege of presenting guest blogger, Jonathan Pearson.
Jonathan Pearson
Jonathan Pearson is the Communications Pastor at Cornerstone Church, Assistant Director of The Sticks, and co-creator of MillennialLeader.com. Jonathan writes, tweets, & speaks to inspire people to work together to reshape the world. Jonathan can be found online at JonathanPearson.net and on twitter as @JonathanPearson. Jonathan is married to Melissa and the two live in Orangeburg, S.C.
(I’m always looking for opportunities to share others stretching stories. Please leave me a comment if you’re interesting in guest posting at Jon Stolpe Stretched!)
We all have those things that we’re uncomfortable with…
Those things that we find ourselves insecure about.
Those things we dread because we know we’re not good in a particular situation.
Those things that when forced to, we do OK in, but we don’t want to be forced to.
And then we have those things that we’re uncomfortable with but know are a necessary inconvenience.
Those things that we know, if we do them, we’ll lead us beyond where we are.
Those things that, once we get through them, take us to another level.
Those things that stretch us.
For me, it’s being young and leading people older than me.
Everyday of my life, it stretches me to think different, remain humble, and love those I lead.
Everyday, it forces me to get uncomfortable, to seek God, and to do the very best I can.
Some days, I screw it up.
Some days, I knock it out of the park.
But if I was never in over my head,
if I was never forced to get uncomfortable,
I’d never grow.
My potential would never be reached.
It’s in those times of tough, hard nosed, in over your head times of leadership that we’re prepared for our destiny… that we’re prepared for the God sized calling in our lives.
Don’t regret or detest what stretches you.
What’s stretching you these days?
My Treasure & My Heart
“For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also.”
Matthew 6:21
Where is my treasure?
Where is my heart?
I have lots of interests. I spend my time on lots of things. I work. I read. I blog. I run. I watch television. I eat. I sleep – some.
Do I devote the same amount of time, energy, and attention to the people and the things that mean the most to me? This is the question that stretches me. My God, my wife, and my kids deserve my focus.
This doesn’t mean that I can’t have interests and hobbies. But I must always keep these things in check.
Stretch on…!
How about you? Do you know where your priorities should be? How do they match up with reality?
(Please add your comment, and remember to come back tomorrow for a great guest post by Jonathan Pearson!)
December 17th, 2011 Week In Review…
Another week has come and gone. It was a busy week in real life and here on the Stretched Blog. The blog is trending towards similar traffic patterns to last week – maybe even stronger this week. This week saw the second best day ever on The Stretched Blog. And I’m excited about what’s coming up in the week ahead. Here’s a recap of the week.
Monday, I kicked off the week with a post which indicated that the Stretched Blog was visiting The Handwritten. If you haven’t read it yet, please head over to Michael Perkin’s blog to read my guest post titled Stop & Start. On Tuesday, I shared about my surprise party and I threw out a question about the cake. We learned some interesting things about some of those in The Stretched Community. Wednesday, The Stretched Blog paid a visit to Deuceology for a guest post titled I’m Dreaming Of A Stretched Christmas. Larry “The Deuce” Carter mentioned that the post has been running strong over on his blog. Please head over and check it out, and read the other stuff that Larry’s writing about. My Thursday post was an introspective post about what it means and looks like to be on fire with our faith. I’m still wrestling through this one, and I appreciated the comments that contributed to the conversation and my thought process. And finally on Friday, we finished the week off with another fun holiday Ice Breaker where we learned about what gift everyone would like to receive on the 13th day of Christmas. You should check it out if you’re trying to figure out what to get The Stretched Blogger for Christmas!
I am so thankful for your contribution to the blog through comments. Your comments are what makes this Stretched Community! Please remember to take the time to Subscribe to the blog, so you can have Stretched delivered daily to your e-mail inbox. Also, don’t forget to stop by the Jon Stolpe Stretched Facebook fan page. Become a fan to keep up with some additional Stretched stuff. Thanks!
A few of my favorite posts from the rest of the blogging community this week:
- Even Nice Labels Lie by Tony J. Alicea on The People of the Second Chance
- When You Need Help Writing Do This… by Jeff Goins on Jeff Goins Writer
- How to Lead Yourself Everyday! by Dave Ferguson
I’m really excited about this upcoming week as I’ll be sharing a guest post by Jonathan Pearson along with some other great ideas brewing as we head into the Christmas weekend. I can’t wait!
How about you? How was your week? If you’re a blogger what happened over your way this week? Did you read any great blog posts this week? Share with the rest of us!
Ice Breaker – On The 13th Day Of Christmas What Gift Are You Hoping to Get
It’s that time of the week again…time for an ice breaker question! I’m going to stay with a Christmas related question again this week. For those of you who are new or who forgot, ice breaker questions are used to help people get to know each other – to “break the ice” so to speak. I love hearing what other people have to say and how they think. So for today, I’m excited to throw out another simple ice breaker question. I’ll answer it first, then it’s your turn. Answer the question by leaving a comment for us all to enjoy. Thanks!
Question: On the 13th day of Christmas what gift are you hoping to get from your true love? Or what gift can I, The Stretched Blogger, give you?
My Answer: Here you go….
I know it’s much better to give than to receive. In fact, I much prefer the giving part to the receiving part, but I had to ask the question anyway. I’m not sure how anyone could need or want anything after getting a partridge in a pear tree, two turtle doves, three french hens, four calling birds,…. But maybe all these things left you wanting just a little more.
From a blogging perspective, I’m thinking that this would be a great year to get my own domain name and to start self hosting. But I think I will probably take care of that myself. What I’d really like to get this year are some other things that might take my blogging to another level. Here’s a list of possibilities: a new Standard Theme blog layout, a new laptop (maybe even an Apple), guest bloggers, opportunities to guest post, ideas and inspirations, a few advertisers, new readers, and lots of comments to extend the Stretched Community.
Besides this, I really have everything I could ever want or need. I have an awesome family. And I have some incredible friends – including the Stretched Community. What more could I ask for?
So there you have it, my answer to the question. Now it’s your turn….I can’t wait to hear what you’ve got to say!
On Fire
Last night, I was challenged with a question about my faith. The question went something like this: What does it take to live our lives fully on fire for God? What does that look like? I’m not 100% on where the question was coming from, but it left me to ponder my own walk and my typical desire to find a formula for everything. After all, I’m an engineer!
When I briefly searched the Bible this morning, I could find very few references to our passion for following God and the term fire. Most of the fire references talk about God’s wrath towards people who stray from Him. There are also a few references proclaiming that God is a consuming fire.
So maybe the question should have been “What does it look like when we are living our lives fully passionate for God?” Or simply, “What does it really look like to be a fully devoted follower of Christ?”
I can name a few things that seem to make sense like reading the Bible, serving others, going to church, tithing, and sharing my faith, but it seems like I’m trying to follow a formula.
I shared with my friends that I don’t feel like the intensity of my fire for God is constant. There are times when it burns brightly and more intense, and there are times when it appears to be a small candle. I feel like life circumstances can sometimes diminish our flames as we struggle to find hope for the day ahead. On the other hand, there are clearly times when I feel a burning passion and connection with God.
What this leads me to believe is that our faith cannot simply be about our feelings. Our feelings and passions will go up and down. We’re like that. We need to be doing the necessary things to feed our minds, so that when our feelings leave us in the dumps we will still know that God is God.
And so, I’m still pondering these questions from last night. Thank you for letting me wrestle and stretch out loud.
What do you think? What do you do with these questions?