Uncommon Greatness by Mark Miller – Book Review

Uncommon Greatness is transformational. The pursuit alone will transform us, the people and organizations we serve, and our performance.

Mark Miller – Uncommon Greatness (pp. 13-14)

What makes a leader great?

Better yet, as a leader are you content with normal, common greatness or do you want to be a leader that rises above the norm?

In Uncommon Greatness – Five Fundamentals to Transform Your Leadership, Mark Miller shares the secret to elevating your leadership to the next level. In his latest book (which releases today – February 27th, 2024), Miller provides a roadmap for becoming an uncommonly great leader. Uncommon Greatness systematically shows when you SERVE with HEART you are on your way to lasting greatness.

I was privileged to receive an early launch team copy of this book. I devoured it. I highlighted the pages. I firmed up some areas of my own leadership to better align with Miller’s teachings. And I’ve been sharing the message of Uncommon Greatness with my team.

If you want to become the best leader you can be, it starts by avoiding the trap of settling for the common. Learn how you can achieve uncommon greatness as a leader by picking up a copy of Uncommon Greatness today!

Author’s note: I received a copy of Uncommon Greatness in exchange for an honest review. I truly believe this book is a great resources for current and aspiring leaders. I recommend Uncommon Greatness, and I’ll look for ways to share the messages of this book with others. Go check it our for yourself.

The Trade by Lon Stroschein – Book Review

When I think of the trade, I think about a blockbuster sports trade in which high profile players or moved around the league in exchange for other players, draft picks, and/or cash. I think about trading baseball cards. For example, a few weeks ago, I traded several New York Yankees baseball cards to my friend, Dan, in exchange for a Milt Thompson autographed baseball and three other autographed items from retired Philadelphia Phillies players. I also think about stock trading.

Trading one thing for another think is what it’s all about. When we trade we attempt to better our position for the future (or at least keep it from getting worse).

This year, I was introduced to Lon Stroschein. Lon is a former corporate executive who recently left his high paying corporate job in order to pursue something different. He traded his past job for something new – something different – something better. Since leaving his corporate job, Lon has taken up coaching, podcasting, speaking, and writing in an effort to help “dudes” like himself make similar trades.

This summer, Lon released his first book, The Trade: Moving from the life you have to the life you want. In The Trade, Lon tells his story. He tells exactly what was going through his head as he considered stepping away from the mergers and acquisition success he had come to know. He shares about the conversations he had with his wife about making this trade. And he shares an important story about his daughter that left me in tears.

What Lon has to share in The Trade is important and wise. Our lives are short. Maybe it’s time you consider a trade.

Pick up your copy today!

Author’s note: I now consider Lon a friend. I’ve read his book. I’ve listened to every single episode of his podcast. I’m part of his email and LinkedIn communities. And I’ve had the great honor and privilege of spending time talking one on one with Lon. He is a solid individual. He’s inspiring. He is a fantastic listener who asks thought provoking questions. You should check him out.

On My Way

“The man who views the world at fifty the same as he did at twenty has wasted thirty years of his life.”

Muhammad Ali

I hit fifty nearly two years ago, but Muhammad Ali’s quote seems to ring true for me as I draw closer to my fifty-second birthday. I find myself searching. I find myself in a time of rediscovery. I’m learning new things about me. And I’m relearning things about me that I once knew with confidence.

Life is like a long game of hide and go seek.

We can sit on the sideline watching as others play the game. We can be content with stagnating – staying the same, refusing to grow, and resisting the changes that naturally come with life and getting older.

Or we can embrace adventure. We can get in the game constantly finding ways to grow, to move forward, and to discover the newness that awaits us each day.

I started this blog many years ago with the idea of sharing thoughts and experiences on the theme of stretch. How is God stretching me? What stretchmarks are present in my life that are pushing me forward? And how might my stretch thoughts and experiences encourage others?

I haven’t shared here for a while.

Maybe I’ve been on the sideline simply trying to survive the day to day grind.

Maybe I’ve failed to see when and how God is stretching me.

Maybe I’ve been too scared to consider where I need to grow.

Maybe I’ve allowed the busyness or the responsibilities of life to run my life.

I don’t know about you, but I don’t want to live a life on the sideline. I don’t want to be content to stay the same. I don’t want to live a life of regret – regret that I didn’t keep learning, regret that I didn’t risk enough, regret that I stopped stretching.

It’s time to stretch. It’s time to grow. It’s time to be on my way.

“But first and most importantly seek (aim at, strive after) His kingdom and His righteousness [His way of doing and being right—the attitude and character of God], and all these things will be given to you also.”

Matthew 6:33 (Amplified Bible AMP)

New Book Review: Culture Rules by Mark Miller

Today is the official launch day for Mark Miller’s latest book, Culture Rules – The Leader’s Guide to Creating the Ultimate Competitive Advantage. I’m excited for the release of this book. I had the privilege of reading it ahead of time, and it was a very powerful read for people like me who are trying to build and maintain a business culture that thrives.

In Culture Rules, Mark Miller unpacks what it means to have a high performance culture. He uses plenty of research, lots of examples, and rich reflection to help readers understand what it takes to create an effective for your organization and what it takes to maintain that culture into the future.

I liked this book so much that I purchased copies for some of my team members.

If you want to take your organization to the next level by crafting a culture that will work for your organization, your team members, and those you serve, I’d highly recommend you pick up a copy of Culture Rules today.

Here is a link to purchase the book. Please note that this is a referral link, so I could benefit if you purchase the book using this link. Please also note that I was not required to provide a positive review in exchange for this referral link. I truly believe this is a book you need if you want to take your organization to the next level.

If I Ran The Circus

“The Circus McGurkus! The cream of the cream! The Circus McGurkus! The Circus Supreme! The Circus McGurkus! Colossal! Stupendous! Astounding! Fantastic! Terrific! Tremendous! ”

Dr. Seuss (If I Ran The Circus)

As I was trying to collect my thoughts for a blog post tonight, I was interrupted multiple times by our puppy, Virgil. First he wanted to go outside. Then he insisted on being chased around the house in an effort to retrieve the tissue he stole from the pantry. And just when I sat down to begin writing, I knocked over a full glass of water that was hidden behind my laptop. This led to another frenzy of moving things off the table and finding towels to dry off the water.

(No use crying over spilled water. Right?)

This comes after a workday in which my schedule was completely derailed by a customer demand and the follow-up actions required to address the situation.

Sometimes life can seem pretty crazy – circus-like even. Life can become chaotic, unpredictable, and unnerving.

Some of us may naturally thrive in a circus-like environment – like Dr. Seuss’ McGurkus. We like the excitement and adrenaline rush that comes with high-flying, fast-paced theatrics. We like adventure. We like the daring and crazy aspect of the whole experience.

Others of us prefer the predictable, more relaxed pace of routine. Some would call it boring, but we call it comforting.

I’m probably more like the second one. If you’ve followed me for a while, you know I like the routine that comes with a disciplined life.

As a step back and think about it, there something to be said for both extremes. Perhaps, it might be better to find ourselves somewhere in the middle. Finding a place in life where we can feel appropriately comfortable while experiencing the stupendous seems like a great place to live.

If I ran the circus, I’d probably have gray hair from the high-flying adventures, but I’d probably have the most amazing stories to tell.

As I have worked towards reestablishing my writing routine, I think I’m rediscovering I might have more stories to tell thanks to the circus-like life I get to live every day.

How about you? Does your life sometimes feel like a circus? What would you like about running your circus?

(By the way, “If I Ran The Circus” was my favorite Dr. Seuss book as a child. I remember reading it repeatedly with my Dad. Thanks, Dad!)

Finding Positivity In Negative Circumstances

“Once you replace negative thoughts with positive ones, you’ll start having positive results.”

Willie Nelson

It’s easy to focus on the negative.

The problem with focusing on the negative for too long is that it leads to despair and hopelessness. An attitude of “This is wrong” and “That is wrong” and “This stinks” seems to perpetuate itself. It’s kind of like Eeyore from Winnie the Pooh who always seemed to have a dark cloud hovering over him.

I don’t know about you, but this is not how I want to live. I want to look for the positive. I want to see the sun shining through the dark clouds. I want to be looking ahead with hope instead of looking behind in misery.

We each have the choice to make. Will I dwell in my negative circumstances? Or will I look for the good?

I’ve had several conversations recently in which I was venting or someone else was venting at me. At the end of the conversation, I asked “What was something good about today?” This question or something like this has helped me find positivity despite the negative circumstances or challenging situations I find myself. I’d encourage you to ask yourself that question as well.

What was something good about today?

Finding Hope In Hopelessness

“Hope is being able to see that there is light despite all of the darkness.”

Desmond Tutu

I was talking with one of my brothers tonight on the way home from work. He and his family are going through some challenging times right now – times that seem hopeless in many ways. After talking about the situation for a little while, we eventually landed on a topic that was more “fun” – woodworking. My brother is becoming a master carpenter. He has been building some amazing cutting boards, furniture, and other wooden objects. Meanwhile, I built a couple of relatively simple cornhole goals this weekend. It was good to be distracted for a few minutes. Before hanging up the phone, we again returned to the more serious matters.

I get the sense that people have told my brother that God won’t give he and his family anything they can’t handle. My brother and I have both learned the untruth of this statement. There are times when we encounter things in our lives that we simply cannot handle on our own. We need God’s intervention. We need the help of friends and family. We need the prayers and words of encouragement of others. These are the things that provide real hope when things seem hopeless.

This fall was a tough time for me as I encountered significant challenge in my wife’s mental health. There were minutes, hours, and days when I felt exhausted and hopeless. There were certainly times when I could only rely on God to bring me hope and sustenance for my weary soul. It was in some of the darkest moments when I had to lean into the hope that God could work through the challenges we were experiencing at that time for good. While my wife was in the midst of her challenges and as she has experienced healing, we have seen God working upstream in ways we couldn’t have imagined.

As I pray for my brother and his family, I pray they would know this hope and they would see God’s provision of healing, rest, and sustenance.

Hope doesn’t mean everything will be easy or worked out with a perfect bow. For me, hope means I can trust God no matter what – even when the outcome maybe different that I envision.

What gives you hope when you experience hopelessness?

We All Need Help In Our Lives

“The purpose of human life is to serve, and to show compassion and the will to help others.”

Albert Schweitzer

Early Sunday morning, I woke up from a dream in which a friend of mine who is about 15 years older than me needed help getting out of a swimming pool. As I helped him get up on the edge of the pool, he expressed his embarrassment for needing my help. I explained to him that he had helped so many people over the course of his life, and it was okay to get a little help for himself right now.

This is when I woke up.

The dream wandered around in my thoughts as I tried to go back to sleep. Dreams can be weird. Are they really trying to give us messages or are they just the result of the sushi I ate the night before?

I’m an engineer, not a psychologist. In other words, I’m not sure I can fully answer that question.

The Bible clearly talks about dreams that were providing messages. Think of Joseph’s dreams in the book of Genesis. God clearly seemed to be speaking to him about his future leadership and role in saving his family.

So what can I learn from my crazy dream? After all, I know my friend is currently capable of climbing out of a swimming pool all by himself.

Maybe the dream is reminding me to be aware of others in need and to lend a helping hand when the opportunities present themselves.

Maybe the dream is reminding me that I need to accept the help of others. I have recently felt overburdened by the weight of several responsibilities I carry.

Maybe the dream is just telling me to be more careful in selecting my sushi next time.

Whatever the case may be, I think it’s never too much to help others, and it’s also important to ask for help and to accept the help of others.

What are you dreaming about these days? Are you listening to what your dreams have to say?

When It Comes To Reflection: Record It!

“You go through life experiences. Each record captures a different turning point in my life.”

Keith Urban

Last week, I had the privilege of talking to my mentee for our monthly GCC Mentor Connect Mentor-Mentee Check-In. For the second year in a row, I have been teamed up with a sophomore engineering student at Grove City College. Over the course of the academic year, we will meet five or six times (generally via Teams due to distance limitations). In these meetings, we spend time learning about and from each other. I help the student set goals for our time together. When we meet each month, we make sure measurable steps are being made to ensure achievement and overall learning from our shared experience. I also have the privilege of sharing from my own academic, vocational, and life experiences.

During our meeting last week, my mentee asked me for advice on how I might live my college years differently. I’m not sure this was the exact question as we were discussing both college and post-college plans and experiences. I suggested that finding away to record regular times of reflection. I explained that I have used different methods over the years to include this blog and my own journals. I encouraged her to find a method that works for her. It could be voice memos. It could be video recordings. It could even be letters sent to herself through the mail or email.

Yesterday, I wrote about the importance of making space for reflection.

I think it’s important to pair that advice with the advice of finding a way to record your reflections. When I record my reflections, it helps to solidify the lessons I’m learning through life. It provides a place for me to return to from time to time. When I look back at these recorded reflections, I can see God’s hand moving in my life – helping me to grow, teaching me lessons, and even carrying me when I just can’t seem to move forward myself.

Today, I want to challenge you to find a method that works for you to record your reflections. Buy a journal. Start a blog. Create your own video channel. Be creative. Try it out for a few days. If it works, stay with it. If it doesn’t work, explore another option.

Don’t let your most important reflections disappear for ever. Record them. You won’t regret it.

Creating Margin for Reflection

“The real man smiles in trouble, gathers strength from distress, and grows brave by reflection.”

Thomas Paine

I think I’ve avoided reflection now for a while. I’ve too often made the excuse that I’m distracted by other responsibilities in my life. It’s not a completely invalid excuse. My responsibilities at work have ramped up over the past few years as I’m responsible for leading over 100 employees and generating over $85 million dollars of revenue a year (more this year). This year I’m the President of the Blue Bell Rotary Club. This has certainly added to my time commitments. This year, I’ve navigated some rough waters as my wife has struggled through mental health challenges (she’s amazing and is doing quite a bit better right now). And I’ve had other things going on as well.

When it comes to making time for reflection recently, here’s the truth: I’ve done a terrible job taking time to reflect. I’ve allowed my own exhaustion and perhaps my own fear to prevent me from prioritizing time for the real, deep reflection necessary for the growth for which I’m called and created.

After 51 years (I celebrated number 50 on Thursday, December 8th), I learned that life isn’t always going to be easy. There will be challenges. There will be failures. There will be a revealing of shortcomings. These are the facts.

I’ve also learned (and relearned again and again) that we can learn from our tough experiences, mistakes, and flaws. We can learn if we take time to reflect, to understand what is happening in our lives, to celebrate the victories, to mourn the losses, and to find areas of our lives in which we can STRETCH and experience new life and growth.

As I blog for the third day in a row, I’m realizing that these 17 minutes are important to give me a platform, a time, and a place to reflect.

That’s what I’ve got today.

If you are interested in finding out how reflection could STRETCH you, I’d encourage you to sign up TODAY for the 7 Week Stretch Challenge. Click here to get more information.