March 2014 – Top Posts and Commenters (Plus BOOK GIVEAWAY)

You Have A Story Worth Sharing

Yesterday in the lunch room at work, I was eating lunch with one of my co-workers.  I was in the middle of a very busy day, and my quick lunch provided a brief opportunity to catch my breath before heading into the afternoon.  We talked about work for a few minutes and about one of our customers.  I was in somewhat of a zone as I thought through my morning which consisted of non-stop meetings from 7AM until 12:30PM.  My co-worker turned the conversation to another subject when he asked me what I did in my free time.

I had to chuckle.  This isn’t a question I get very often at work.  So I asked him if he really wanted to know.

He nodded, and I proceeded to tell him that I was getting ready to release my first book.

This opened up a broader conversation.  I showed him a picture of the book cover, and he began asking more questions.  After several minutes, the conversation concluded with a request for an autographed copy of my book.

My book is called On Track – Life Lessons from the Track & Field.  The book is an intersection of my love for running, my interest in writing, and my faith.

I’m learning that my book will open doors to conversations I may never have had before.  I’m excited for these new opportunities.  I pray I’ll be prepared and open to each new conversation and opportunity that results from the book.

You do interesting things as well.  You have a story worth sharing.

Make the most of the opportunities to share your story.

You could change someone’s life!

What do you like to do in your free time?  How have you made the most of the opportunities to share your story?

On Track will be sold on Amazon.com starting April 22, 2014, and there will be a special discount available for subscribers to the Stretched Newsletter.  Check out this post to find out how to sign up for the newsletter.

Ten Things I’ve Learned About Writing a Book

On Tuesday, April 22, 2014, I’ll be releasing my first book, On Track – Life Lessons from the Track & Field.  It’s an exciting time for me as I pursue this goal and dream.  I’m certainly not an expert on the whole process of writing a book, but I’ve learned some things along the way.  Here’s a glimpse into what I’ve learned so far.

Ten Things I’ve Learned About Writing a Book

1. Writing a book is possible.  I never thought about writing a book.  After all, I’m an engineer.  After I started blogging, people started asking me, “When are you going to write a book?”  I never thought it was possible for me.  Crazy how things change.  Now, I’m getting ready to release my first book project, and I have another one in the works.  If it’s possible for me, it’s possible for you too!
2. Writing a book is scary.  Once I started thinking about writing a book, fear began to grip me.  Do I really have what it takes to write a book?  Will anyone really read a book I write?  I guess the second question still has me wondering a bit.  I also fear what people might say about my book.  A little fear may be healthy, but I’m learning to have courage as I move forward with my first book project.
3. Writing a book takes time.  I started working on a book about short-term missions.  I created an outline, and I sent it out to a few trusted friends for feedback.  I received some great feedback, but I realized along the way that I needed to try something a little smaller before I ventured into this topic.  I shifted gears to my current book project, On Track.  It has taken time to pull everything together, to come up with new material, to proofread it, to re-write it, to re-write it again, and to get it ready for publishing.  A book doesn’t just happen.  It takes time to write a book.
4. Writing a book takes a community.  I have been so blessed to have friends and contacts who have helped me with things like cover design, editing, proofreading, and endorsements.  Now, I’m developing a launch team to help with releasing the book to the public in the next few weeks.  A successful book release definitely requires a community.
5. Writing a book requires a thick skin.  I’m learning how important it is to get honest feedback.  There have been a few people who have challenged me with feedback on this project.  Their feedback has required me to consider changing things like the cover or like my approach to my topic.  The feedback has also forced me to reconsider things like my release date and my release strategy.  As a first time author, I’m especially appreciative of the feedback – even the feedback which was hard to hear.
6. Writing a book is fun.  So far, I’ve had a blast with this first book project.  The process has tapped into the creative side of my brain.  I’m excited to see what happens in the coming weeks as my book goes public.
7. Writing a book is a learning experience.  I am learning new things every day about writing and publishing a book.  I’ve learned about sizing for cover art.  I’ve learned about the importance of editing.  I’ve learned about formatting.  I’m learning about ISBN.  The list goes on.  When I get through this experience, it feels like I could write another book just about the experience of writing a book.  I’m looking forward to using what I’m learning on my next book project.
8. Writing a book is addictive.  Despite all the time and hard work, I’m excited to keep going.  For me, there is something therapeutic about writing, and another book project seems like a natural next step.
9. Writing a book provides new opportunities.  When people hear that I’m writing a book, they have a lot of questions.  My book project has provided many new opportunities for conversation.  I get to share with people about my book.  I share what it’s about.  I share why I wrote it.  As the book approaches the release date in April, I’m sure I’ll have more opportunities.  This is exciting!
10. Writing a book is not what it’s all about.  From the list above, you would think that this is all I do and all I think about.  While the book writing process has consumed a lot of my time and thoughts, it’s not the only thing.  I’m learning that it’s important to keep the whole process in perspective.  Life is still happening around me, and I need to participate.  Writing at times can suck you in.  It will consume you if you let it.  While there is definitely a need for concentrated efforts when you are writing a book, it is also important to stay in touch with the rest of your life while you write.  I have a wife and two kids.  I don’t want to miss out on them and their activities.  If you plan to write a book, you have to find your balance.

Have you ever thought about writing a book?  What’s holding you back from writing your book?

Or have you ever written a book?  What have you learned about writing a book? 

On Track will be sold on Amazon.com, and there will be a special discount available for subscribers to the Stretched Newsletter.  Check out this post to find out how to sign up.

On Track Book Launch Update

On Track – Life Lessons from the Track & Field is coming together.  I wanted to give you a little update on the launch.

The book front cover design is complete, and the editor returned the manuscript to me on Friday.  In addition, the book has picked up a few endorsements.  Here is what people are saying so far about On Track:

“This small book packs a big punch. When Jon writes about his races, I feel as though I am there. He draws me in and then promptly gives me a life lesson to take away. Whether you’re an athlete now, have one hidden inside, or have never so much as laced up your running shoes, read Jon’s book to discover how to get your life ‘on track.’”  Matt McWilliams, entrepreneur, leadership guru, author of The Power of Gratitude (www.mattmcwilliams.com)

 “This well-written, easy-to-read book is a great reference for any runner.  But it’s so much more.  Jon Stolpe teaches us great strategies for winning the race, both on and off the track.  This little book is packed with lessons for runners and lessons for a life of faith.  Take an hour to read this book.  I guarantee that you’ll be motivated to run the good race.”   Dan Erickson, musician, teacher, author of A Train Called Forgiveness and At The Crossing Of Justice and Mercy (www.danerickson.net)

 “I have known Jon for over 7 years, and followed his blog since its start. I find his unique perspective on life so very intriguing, and refreshing. It is not often that you find a writer who integrates his faith, his hobbies, his family – his life – into his writing. ‘Get out and live your life’ is not just a catchy quote from his book. Jon shares how life can be lived as a race that can be run at your own speed, but it’s a race you need never run alone. With his faith out in front, On Track, is a great example of how to live a life with God right by your side. No matter if you are starting, finishing or just trying to get in the race, you will find something inspiring to take with you.”  Diane Karchner, Life Coach, author of Losing the Mask (www.dianekarchner.com)

 “Jon is a runner. At times a reluctant runner, but that’s what makes On Track so enjoyable. It’s not a book written by someone who never struggles or has all the answers. It’s a book written by a real person who has learned a thing or two about how similar a relationship with God is to running. Jon includes great quotes, Biblical insight, and personal experience into a book that can speak to the seasoned or rookie runners in life.”  Rob Shepherd, pastor, author of Even If You Were Perfect Someone Would Crucify You (www.robshep.com)

I’m excited and anxious to release the book.  I had originally planned to launch the book on Monday, March 31, 2014.  After careful consideration and timely advice, I’m moving the launch date back to Tuesday, April 22, 2014.  This will provide more opportunity to strategically release the book.  If you’d like to be part of my launch team and pick up a preview copy of the book, let me know.  You can e-mail me at jon@jonstolpe.com, and I will send out a preview copy to you later this week.  I am looking for people who can read the book, write a review on Amazon.com and possibly on their blog the week of April 21-27, 2014, and promote the book to their friends, family, and social media contacts.

On Track will be sold on Amazon.com, and there will be a special discount available for subscribers to the Stretched Newsletter.  Check out this post to find out how to sign up.

Thank You Thursday – Writing Your Acknowledgements Page

As I finalize my first book which I’m hoping will be released on March 31, I’m finalizing the acknowledgements portion of the book.  For any author, this is place where we write a thank you note to those who have made a book project possible.  There are many people I’ll be thanking (you’ll have to pick up a copy of the book though to read the list).

The exercise of writing acknowledgments is a great way to appreciate others.  I’m learning it’s a little harder than one might think to write this section of a book.  I want to make sure I thank the people who really made it happen, and I certainly don’t want to miss anyone.  If I really think about it, I could probably fill a book with thank you notes for people who have made a difference in my life.  (Maybe that’s an idea for another book in the future.)

Next week is the final week of the 90 Day Thank You Note Challenge.  Before we close out the challenge, I’d like to challenge you to write an acknowledgement section for your future book.  Use the time to express your gratitude for those who have changed your world for the better.  When you’re done, make a copy of your acknowledgements and send it out to those you appreciate.  I think you’ll make someone’s day.

Share a few sentences from your acknowledgements in the comments below.

Stay tuned for more details about the release of On Track – Life Lessons from the Track & Field.  I’ll be posting more information in the coming days.

Book Project – Learning To Release / A Call For Your Help

Last week, I posted on the blog asking people to Help Me Pick A Book Cover Design.  Traffic spiked on this day as people responded with their thoughts, encouragement, and criticism.  I’m discovering courage is required when launching book ideas into the public.  I received so many comments.  Mostly, I received encouragement.  Some readers offered constructive feedback on how the designs could be better.  And I even had a couple of people submit their own design ideas.

Honestly, I wasn’t prepared for the deluge of feedback.  I’m glad I put it out there for the “world” to see.  And I’m thankful everyone responded.  It was so helpful, but I just wasn’t quite ready for the variety of responses.  I’m naturally a people-pleaser, so I am cursed with wanting to make everyone happy.  I don’t think this is possible.  Everyone has their own perspective and preferences.

I’m starting to realize the importance of writing and publishing for me first and then for everyone else.  Obviously, I want my writing to challenge people and even be well received, but this won’t always happen.

I am getting ready to launch my first book project.  If all goes well, On Track – Life Lessons From The Track & Field will be released by the end of the month.  There’s a natural tendency to hold onto it until it’s perfect, but I’m learning I need to let go and release it; otherwise, I will fall into the trap of failing to ship.

On Track takes a spectator’s perspective from the athletic field to the classroom of life.  Each chapter takes a look at a certain aspect of the track and field world and translates it to everyday life.  From the practice field and the starting blocks to the finish line, we can all learn important lessons from the track for living and running the best race possible.

Here’s where I could use your help:

1. Pray for me.  I’d really appreciate your prayers.  I want my writing to glorify God.  Pray I’d stay focused on finishing up this project.  Pray I’d release it.  Pray that it would stretch people.
2. I’m looking for some people to read and review the book.  You don’t have to be a track athlete to get something out of this book.  I think it has something for everyone.  At this time, I’m looking for the reviews to be posted on March 31st.  If you’re interested in reading and reviewing the book, leave a comment, send me an e-mail at jon@jonstolpe.com, or fill out the contact form below, so we can connect.  If you are up for this opportunity, I’ll send you an advance copy a week ahead of time.

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These two things will push me to the finish.  I appreciate your help!

What keeps you on track towards finishing a goal or project?  What project are you working on now?  How can I encourage you to keep going?

Special thanks to John Noonan of True Blue Media for the incredible cover design.  I’m looking for an editor who can read over the manuscript prior to release.  If you can help, let me know.

 

Help Me Pick A Book Cover Design

I’m working on finalizing an eBook which I hope to release later this month.  I’d love to get your help in selecting a cover for the book.  I’ve put together four designs for your consideration.  The book is called On Track – Life Lessons From The Track & Field.  Could you do me a HUGE favor and vote on the design you most like?  Also, in the comments let me know what you think.  Should I go back to the drawing board?  Am I on the right “track”?  What do you like about the design you selected?  What would you change?

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February 2014 – Top Posts and Commenters

Here are the highlights from February 2014.  Thanks to everyone who read along and commented.  Your readership and participation in the daily discussions are what make The Stretched Community.  Thank you!

Overall, traffic was down slightly from January (5.62%).  Traffic was down 12.36% compared to a year ago.  The top 10 posts included two posts from 2012, one post from 2011, and one post from 2013.  If you missed any of these posts, I hope you’ll go and check them out now by clicking below.  The post with the most engagement was a fun post from February 27, 2014 – 33 Reasons To Say Thank You.

Top 10 Posts:

1. Ten Things Every Small Group Leader Should Know  March 7, 2012 (135)
2. Violated February 18, 2014 (107)
3. Ten Reasons To Attend FamilyLife Weekend To Remember February 27, 2012 (97)
4. I’m Losing My Patients – 6 Ways To Rediscover Patience  April 2, 2013 (91)
5. 5 Things To Remember When We Say Or Do Something Stupid February 12, 2014 (65)
6. Send Me February 5, 2014 (51)
7. Ice Breaker – Winter Olympics February 21, 2014 (51)
8. Thank You Thursday – Everyone Should Give Thanks February 13, 2014 (50)
9. The Power of the Next Question May 20, 2011 (45)
10. 5 Suggestions For Handling Disruptions To Your Routine (#2 Is My Favorite) February 26, 2014 (43)

Top 10 Commenters:

• David Paul Stolpe (40)
• Steve Y (13)
• Matt McWilliams (12)
• Larry Carter (11)
• David (9)
• Leah Adams (5)
• TNeal (5)
• Matt Ham (4)
• Joe Lalonde (3)
• Heidi Bender (3)

As promised at the beginning of the month, I have randomly chosen someone from the top commenters list to receive a copy of Life After Art: What You Forgot About Life and Faith Since You Left the Art Room by Matt Appling.  The winner of this book is…(drum roll)…Matt McWilliams.  Congrats to Matt!

For the month of March, I’ll be giving away a copy of Packing Light: Thoughts on Living Life with Less Baggage by Allison Vesterfelt.  This month, the winner will be chosen randomly from the top 10 commenters.

Thanks to each and everyone for reading and for commenting.  I’m looking forward to March with The Stretched Community!  The month of March will include more STRETCHING posts.  (I’m also excited to announce something new coming this month – read all the way to the bottom of this post for a clue.)  If you’re interested in guest posting here, leave a comment to connect with me.  March should be another great month!

How was your month?  If you’re a blogger share a link to your top post in the comments?  What was your favorite Stretched post this month?  How were you STRETCHED in February?

In case you’re interested, here are a few other interesting stats about January (based on Google Analytics):

• Visits – Decreased 4.28%
• Unique Visitors – Decreased 8.22%
• Pageviews – Decreased 5.04%
• Pages Per Visit –Decreased 0.89%
• Average Visit Duration – Decreased 6.10%
• Bounce Rate – Increased 1.91%
• New Visits – Decreased 1.67%

Don’t forget to sign up for the Stretched newsletter.  Check out this post to find out how to sign up.  (I’ll be making a more formal announcement soon, but here’s some exciting information if you made it this far.  In March, I hope to release an eBook called On Track – Life Lessons from the Track & Field.  All subscribers to the Stretched newsletter will get it for FREE.  So sign up, if you’re not already on the subscriber list.  The newsletter goes out periodically with extra STRETCHED content.)

Book Review: It’s Possible – How To Thrive (Not Just Survive)

Do you ever feel like you are in survival mode?

Does it feel like it’s impossible to get out of the rut you’re in?

Sometimes, we need a simple reminder.  Sometimes, we need a little encouragement.

In Dave Arnold’s latest book, he challenges readers to renew their vision for what is possible. It’s Possible: How To Thrive, Not Just Survive is filled with stories from Dave’s personal experiences designed to help you imagine a life outside of survival mode – a life of thriving.

The book contains common sense lessons about recognizing your destiny deterrents, refusing to settle, and running your race.  (I especially liked the running analogies towards the end of the book.)

Is the book ground-breaking?  Probably not.  But I think it can be useful in giving a shot in the arm to anyone who needs a little encouragement to get over the mountain or speed bump they are facing.

The book officially releases today on Amazon.  Pick up a copy for yourself by clicking here.  If you order the book this week (Feb. 17 – 23), you are eligible for a few special bonuses.  The bonuses are: (1) a digital copy of Dave’s book, Pilgrims of the Alley: Living Out Faith in Displacement; (2) Dan Black’s book, The Leadership Mandate; and (3) a video Dave did in Detroit that ties into the book.  Email Dave your receipt at davejarnold16@gmail.com to get the bonus material.

(For more information about Dave Arnold, check out his blog and consider following him on Twitter.)

(Please note:  I received a copy of It’s Possible for free in exchange for a review.  I was not required to provide a favorable review.  I truly believe this book can be a great reminder to any reader in helping them move from survival mode to a position of thriving.  It’s my honor to be part of the launch team for Dave’s new book.

Also to note:  There are affiliate links in this post.  Should you purchase It’s Possible by clicking one of these links, I receive a small percentage of the purchase.  These funds are used to support The Stretched Blog and to extend ministry and missions to Guatemala.  Thank you!)

Book Review: LIFE after ART by Matt Appling (@MattTCoNP)

When was the last time you took an art class?

When was the last time you were in an art room (besides at meet the teacher night for your kids)?

When was the last time you created something beautiful?

When we become adults, we often put things aside.  We now have responsibilities.  We have “important” things to accomplish.  We don’t have time to play.  We have to work.  We have to make money.  We have to provide.

When we grow up, we leave the art room, and we stop creating beautiful things.

In Life After Art: What You Forgot About Life and Faith Since You Left the Art Room, Matt Appling challenges readers to become artist’s again.  Matt, who is an art teacher in Missouri, takes readers back into the elementary school art room.  He reminds us how creative we once were when we were young.  From here, Matt goes on to describe how society is suffering from an epidemic of lost creativity.  He then takes readers through the process of relearning to create, to take risks, and to be artists again.

I appreciated the perspective Matt brings to this book.  An an engineer and operations manager for the past 20 years, I recognize the tendency to fall into a state of complacency.  I do the same things day after day.  It becomes easy to stop thinking and to stop creating things of beauty.  Personally, my writing has become a place for me to create again.  I may never be the next Monet or Van Gogh.  I may never become the next C.S. Lewis or J.R.R. Tolkien.  But I can create something beautiful.  Thanks for the reminder, Matt!

To learn more about Matt, check out his blog or follow him on Twitter.

This month, I’m giving away a copy of Life After Art: What You Forgot About Life and Faith Since You Left the Art Room to someone in the Stretched Community.  To be considered for the giveaway, you must be one of the top 10 commenters during the month of February.  If you don’t want to wait for the winner to be announced, feel free to pickup a copy of the book by clicking here.

What is the last thing you created?  What was your favorite thing about elementary school art class?

(Please note:  There are affiliate links in this post.  Should you purchase Life After Art by clicking one of these links, I receive a small percentage of the purchase.  These funds are used to support The Stretched Blog and to extend ministry and missions to Guatemala.  Thank you!)

(Special thanks to Tammy Helfrich who sent me a copy of this book.  You should consider reading her blog and listening to her podcast.)