Marketing for the Humble-Hearted

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I am honored to share a post by Carol Peterson today.  Her bio appears at the end of the post, and I’d appreciate if you could pay her a visit after you answer the question at the end of the post.  I really resonate with what Carol has to share as it is something I have struggled with recently in releasing my first book.  Whether you are a writer, a musician, a pastor, or something else.  We all have something worth sharing.  Carol’s words today address an important aspect of releasing what you have to share.

Marketing for the Humble-Hearted

Scripture reminds us to be humble. It tells us that pride is a “deadly sin.” We are taught to have the attitude of a servant.

Writers hope our books bring value or at least a joyful respite to our readers. But despite the buckets of sweat, the gallons of coffee and the trash bags of shredded revisions that went into completing our books, writing them remains the easy part of this business.

The hard part of being a writer is getting our books into the hands of readers so they can be helped or brought joy. It’s that marketing and promotion thing where Christian writers often stumble. How can we be humble while striving to promote our books?

The key is in the value we bring. If our books have no value, then strutting our stuff and marketing our books is indeed prideful. But if what we have written has the possibility of helping even one person, then we have the responsibility to do what we can to help that one person find our book.

To be a Christian is to try to follow Jesus’ example. Jesus didn’t sit in the corner of his house with a few friends and discuss the Ten Commandments. Rather, he traveled the cities and countryside, speaking both to the few and to the multitudes. Often the demands on him necessitated that he escape for quiet moments by himself.

Being God incarnate aside, Jesus did what was tough because what he had to say was important. He did the work of promotion, so to speak, in order to spread the Gospel. Because people needed to hear it.

Doing what is necessary—even if it is difficult and painful—is what having the attitude of a servant is about. A servant seeks to do what is good for someone else and sacrifices his own comfort for the benefit of others. Most of us writers are happiest sitting in a corner and writing. Doing the scary, hard, tedious work of marketing and promotion is all about sacrificing our own comfort.

Many of us Christians write as a ministry—to educate, entertain or inspire others. If we are writing in obedience, part of that obedience involves letting people know about what we have written—because people who need our books can’t be helped by them if they don’t know our books exist.

We come to the writing business to serve others. Part of serving includes promoting so we can reach the people who need to be served. In other words, part of a writing—or any other ministry—involves stepping out into the world. Following the example of Jesus.

Is there something you feel timid about doing? How might looking at it from the point of view of serving others empower you?

Carol Peterson

CAROL PETERSON writes teacher resources for kids and Bible studies for adults. Her latest series, With Faith Like Hers focuses on individual studies of women in Scripture for lessons modern gals can learn about their own character and circumstances. www.carolpetersonauthor.com

On The Eve Of Something Life-Changing

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There is an electricity in the air.

The excitement is building, and there is this feeling that something life-changing is about to happen.

In just over an hour, our family will be heading towards Newark, NJ to catch a flight tomorrow morning to Guatemala.

We have thoughts, ideas, dreams, hopes, and even some fears about what we are about to experience.

We want to change lives – lives of widows, lives of orphans, lives of those who don’t know Jesus.  This will probably happen, but it won’t be the only change that happens.  With little doubt, we will be impacted.  Each of our lives will be transformed by our time away in a foreign land.

What stories we will have to share upon our return.  I can only imagine.

And so as we stand on the brink of amazing expectation and opportunity, we patiently wait with anticipation of what is to come.

I’m not certain about my ability to connect while we are in Guatemala.  I’ll try to check in from time to time if time and accessibility permits.  In the meantime, I have a great line up of guest bloggers who will keep you stretching while I am away.  Read their posts.  Leave comments and enter the discussion.  Jump over to their blogs.  (And while you are at it say a prayer for us, for our partners, and for the people of Guatemala – specifically of Santo Domingo Xenacoj.)

Until next week, keep stretching and look for something life-changing.

 My eager expectation and hope is that I will not be ashamed about anything, but that now as always, with all boldness, Christ will be highly honored in my body, whether by life or by death.  Philippians 1:20 HCSB

Ice Breaker – Slogan For Your Life

Each week on The Stretched Blog, I ask an ice breaker question. The questions are designed to help us get to know each other here in The Stretched Community. I’ll provide my answer to the question here in the post, and then you can leave your response in the comments. While you’re in the comments section, see how others answered the ice breaker question.

(I’m always looking for Ice Breaker question ideas.  If you have an idea, send me an email at jon@jonstolpe.com.  If I use your question, I’ll give you credit and share your links.)

Questions:  If you were to create a slogan for your life, what would it be? (Example: Eat, drink, and be merry, for tomorrow, we all die.)

My Answer:  Make the most of every opportunity.

Make

Answer this week’s ice breaker question by leaving a comment. I look forward to reading your response! (As always, feel free to share links.) And keep STRETCHING!

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Ten Things To Pack On Your International Short-Term Missions Trip

It’s time for me to start packing for our trip to Guatemala.  We can take up to 50 pounds in our suitcases.  We must plan appropriately to make sure we are bringing the necessary items.  Here is a list of things you should consider if you are traveling internationally for a short-term missions trip:

10 Things To Pack On Your International Short-Term Missions Trip

  1. Long pants or long dresses.  Short shorts are not the norm in most of the world.  In fact, uncovered upper legs are quite offensive in most cultures.  We will be wearing pants and long shorts, and the girls will also be wearing long dresses and capris.  If you are traveling overseas, make sure you dress appropriately.
  2. Clothes to leave behind.  The past two years, I have come home with less than half of the clothing I brought.  I can always get more t-shirts and shoes at home in America.  My shirts and shoes are treasured possessions for our friends in Guatemala.  If you are planning to go to a third world country, plan to come home with lighter or fewer suitcases.
  3. Camera.  You don’t have to or want to bring an expensive camera, but you want to bring something to capture the faces and places you will be visiting. Our pictures from last summer of some of my most prize “possessions.”  I treasure the beautiful people and memories represented through these pictures.  (Plan to leave many of the other devices at home.  For one, you probably won’t have access to internet.  Secondly, our devices could cause us to stick out like a sore thumb to a pick-pocket or thief.)
  4. Snacks.  You will want to try some of the food in the foreign land you are visiting, but there are times when you need a little snack or just a taste of home.  Pack granola bars, nuts, gum, or trail mix just in case.  These will come in handy when you are in the middle of a busy day far away from safe food and water.
  5. Water bottle.  We drank a lot of bottled water during our trip last year.  This water was safe to drink, and it kept us hydrated during our travels.  Make sure your water source is safe before you drink it.  Once you find a safe water source, be sure to fill your water bottle as often as possible.
  6. Rain gear and light weight jackets.  It is the rainy season in Guatemala while we are there, and it also gets cool at night.  Rain gear will help you stay dry during the random rain showers, and a jacket or sweatshirt will keep you warm in the cool evenings.  People often think we will be really hot in Guatemala, but we will actually be hanging out at 7,500 feet above sea level.  It’s much cooler at this elevation.  Find out what the weather is like where you are traveling, so you can plan and dress appropriately.
  7. Hand sanitizer.  I can’t guarantee there will be soap and water around when you get dirty.  Make sure you have some type of hand cleaner on hand just in case.  You’ll need it.
  8. Bible and journal.  I would probably recommend a small travel Bible to safe space.  You will want this while you are in the mission field.  God will speak to you in amazing ways, and His Word should be an important part of your listening.  You will also want to have a journal so you can capture your thoughts along the way.
  9. Spending money.  Don’t go overboard here.  You don’t need a lot of money.  You can exchange it at the airport or at a local bank.  You need just enough for snacks, a few souvenirs, and a small gift for your hosts.  We brought $100 per person which seemed to be the right about for a week-long trip.  I would guess that we spend most of this on souvenirs for those at home and for a gift to our host family.  Carrying around lots of money is a recipe for trouble.
  10. Cipro. Cipro is short for a longer pharmaceutical name.  This medicine is crucial for traveling overseas to third world countries.  Despite your best efforts, you will most likely be exposed to bacteria and germs your body is not used to having around.  Travel diarrhea is not fun.  In fact, it can be pretty hard on your body.  Make sure you have Cipro around just in case.  (Malaria is not a problem where we are going, but this is something you should be aware of depending on what part of the world you are visiting.  Depending on where you are heading in Guatemala, you may or may not need to take medicine for malaria.  Malaria medication typically must be taken before, during, and after your trip, so plan ahead.)

One more thing:  Don’t forget your passport!  You might need this to get into and out of a country.

What am I missing?  What questions to you have about packing for an international short-term missions trip?  What else would you want to bring on your trip?

Blogging All-Stars

Yesterday, Major League Baseball celebrated its best players with the annual All-Star Game.

As a fan of the game, I have always enjoyed the All-Star Game.  It’s an opportunity to recognize the outstanding players and the fan-favorite players of the league.  This year’s game only featured one player from my team – Chase Utley of the Philadelphia Phillies.  It was also the last All-Star Game for New York Yankees shortstop, Derek Jeter.

The players in this game are well-loved and recognized throughout the sport and its fan base.

Don’t you think it’s time we recognize the all-starts of the blogging world?

If I were going to choose a Blogging All-Star Team, it would include the following bloggers:

  • Joe Lalonde – Joe writes a great blog designed to encourage leaders.  I love Joe’s insights and encouragement.  If you are looking to learn and be inspired in your leadership, go check out Joe’s blog.
  • Matt McWilliams – Matt writes about life and leadership.  He is an entrepreneur who passes along excellent advice.  Matt is also the founder of the Thank You Revolution.
  • Larry Carter – Larry “The Deuce” is one of the most consistent bloggers I know.  His blog is a great mix of humor and faith.  He will get you thinking twice about things in your everyday life.
  • Dan Erickson – Dan is one of the most creative bloggers I know.  He blogs about communication, social media, and a variety of other topics.  Dan doesn’t follow the trends followed my many other bloggers.  I like the way he goes against the flow.
  • Jeff Goins – Jeff is one of the premier bloggers in the blog world.  He blogs about writing, and he shares practical advice and stories about being a writer.
  • Rob Shepherd – Rob is a pastor, a father, a husband, and a comedian.  He’s also a Lakers fan, but I try not to hold that against him.  I love the way Rob makes you laugh and think.  He is also a movie buff, so I appreciate the movie reviews he occasionally brings to his blog.
  • Shawn Smucker – After an absence from the blogging world, Shawn is back at it.  This guy can write.  He will inspire you.  He will stretch you.  And he will make you smile.
  • Seth Barnes – Seth is the leader behind Adventures in Missions.  His blog challenges readers to live radical in a comfortable world.
  • Dee Riggs – Dee is a friend from years ago, and she is one of the most gifted writers I have ever read.  Her blog takes life from many different angles.
  • Dustin W. Stout – Dustin is a social media and blogging guru.  He is also a creative designer.  He provides practical tips for improving your blog and your social media presence.
  • Michael Hyatt – Michael is the Babe Ruth of the team.  His blog is one of the most followed blogs in the whole blog world.  He blogs about intentional living and leadership, and he also shares a lot about building your platform.  I have learned a lot over the years from Michael, his community, and his guest bloggers.
  • Carlos Whittaker – Carlos is a worship leader, songwriter, author, and creative family guy.  He also approaches life with creativity, intentionality, and passion.
  • Eileen Knowles – Eileen writes about the “scenic route” of life.  She is an amazing writer who writes on a variety of topics.

There are many people who I could add to the list.  If you are a blogger and you are not on the list, don’t take it personally.  I follow so many blogs, and it is a challenge to narrow it down to the very best.  Having said this, I hope you will check out the blogs mentioned above.

Who would you add to the list?  Who would be on your Blogging All-Star Team?

Rice and Beans, Beans and Rice

In a few short days, we will be eating this breakfast, lunch, and dinner. Our family has this meal nearly once a week since our trip
To Guatemala last year. It reminds us of our trip, our friends in Guatemala, and how many people live all the time. We can’t wait to go back this weekend.

What did you have for dinner tonight?

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Navigating The Joys Of Parenting A First Born – The Driving Years

Here’s me and my family the summer before I headed off to college.

I’m a first-born child.  I’m the oldest of three boys.  My middle brother, David, is two and a half years younger than me, and my “little” brother, Erik, is thirteen and a half years younger than me.  We are different although you might not recognize that if you hear us answering the phone.  I think it’s pretty safe to say our parents have had challenges parenting each one of us.  We each respond to correction and discipline a little differently.  While my parents tried to be fair, there is no question that we were each parented a little differently.

As a first-born child, I sometimes felt like I was the guinea pig.  There were certain privileges and expectations that came with being a first-born, and there were also periods of testing.  I tested the boundaries (but not too far as I wanted to please my parents), and my parents were trying to figure out the boundaries as they ventured through parenting milestones for the first time.

I was the first child to go to school.  I was the first child to play on a sports team.  I was the first child to go on an overnight youth group retreat.  And I was the first child to drive.  Driving is a pretty big deal.  In New Jersey, I had to wait until I was seventeen to get my driver’s license.  I didn’t get my own car until I was a junior in college, but I was still expected to pay for my portion of the car insurance bill as soon as I got my license.  I’m not sure how my parents made this decision, but I’m sure it partially had to do with the fact they couldn’t afford to pay for me on their insurance plan and they wanted to make sure I took responsibility for my part of the family driving privileges.

We are currently navigating these waters with our daughter.  Hannah is our first-born child, and she just earned her driver’s license in June.  Leanne and I have been learning a lot through the process.  I think we’re generally doing the right thing, but I feel like we’re also learning and experimenting along the way.

Here are the basics of our agreement with Hannah:

  1. She has to pay for her portion of the car insurance.  We haven’t changed our insurance policy for a while.  Adding Hannah to our plan has meant investigation and price comparison.  We think it’s important for her to pay her share of the insurance, so she has ownership in the whole process.
  2. She has to pay for gas when she uses our car.  Gas is expensive.  This could be one reason many parents pay for gas for their children.  This is why we choose to make our kids pay for the gas they use.  Driving costs money, and we are not made of money.
  3. If we get another car (to be used by her), she will pay for half of the car.  Neither Leanne or I had cars until we were into the second half of our college careers.  My parents had two cars I could use when they were available.  We only have one car that Hannah can drive.  This may make having a second car more attractive to Hannah.  She is currently looking at a couple of cars.  The idea of paying for half the car came from Dave Ramsey’s 401DAVE Plan he used with his children when it came to their first car purchases.  When a child pays for a major portion of their vehicle, they are more likely to take care of it.
  4. Any costs incurred as a result of a ticket or accident will result in additional payment by Hannah (and possible further results).  Hannah is a good driver, but tickets and accidents happen.
  5. She cannot drive with other people besides her brother until we agree it’s okay.  The state of Pennsylvania limits the number of non-family members in a car driven by a minor.  We are enforcing this limit and adding our own stipulation until we are all more comfortable with Hannah’s driving.
  6. She must clearly communicate with us about times, places, and people.  She has a cell phone for a reason.  We expect her to call us when she arrives at a place.  We expect her to tell us where she will be and when she will be home.  In addition, we expect her to ask us before she goes someplace.  We know that Hannah is trying to figure out her boundaries of independence, and this is something we want to encourage with appropriate limits.  Communication is key to trust.
  7. Driving is a privilege and not a right.  As parents, we reserve the right to restrict or remove driving privileges based on attitude, grades, family participation, and overall performance.  Just because she has a license (and potentially a car) does not mean she is completely independent.  She still lives under our roof.  We are still the parents, and she is still our child.
  8. Safe driving is a must.  This goes without saying, but it must be said.  I was a teenager, so I know it can be easy to have a feeling of invincibility.  It only takes a split second to get into a dangerous situation, and in today’s world of cell phones and other devices, it’s easy to be distracted while driving.
  9. We love you!  No matter what happens, we love our daughter.  We have these “rules”, because we love Hannah.  We want what is best for her.  The Bible says that parents who love their children discipline them and set appropriate boundaries for them.  This is our aim.

Are these all the right rules?  For us, it’s a place to start.  Leanne and I are definitely learning through this experience.  We have been reminded about the importance of communicating with each other and with our children.  Some people may think we are being too strict, and some may say we are too lenient.

Will we change the rules at some point?  I’m not sure.  We are trying to do our best, but this is the first time we’ve done this.  Our second child will hopefully benefit from watching his older sister navigate these waters.  And we will hopefully benefit by better communicating our expectations to our son.

Parenting is a challenge, and parenting a first-born child is an adventure!

Where do you fall in the birth order of your family?  How did your parents handle driving privileges for you?  How have you handles driving privileges for your children?  If your kids aren’t driving age yet, have you started talking about it yet?  What rules will you have for your kids when it comes to driving?

Short-Term Missions – Amazing, Diverse, Life-Changing

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Short-term missions trips are amazing experiences, but they are all a little different.

I can remember going on week-long missions trips with my high school youth group.  Without fail, every year was not the same.  There were some elements that seemed to follow us from year to year.  For example, if memory serves me correctly, 4 out of 5 years which I went on this trip there was some type of blow-up on Thursday night.  This is probably not that unusual when you take 20-30 teenagers for a week away from home.  They get sleep deprived and homesick, and something is bound to snap.  Besides this though, these trips were all different.  We served different people in different locations.  There were different themes that emerged from each trip, and we came home with different stories from our experiences.

In less than one week, our family will be returning to Santo Domingo Xenacoj for the third summer in a row.  We have ideas about what we will experience and about what our serving opportunities will look like based on our previous experiences.  But here’s the reality:  this trip will be different from the previous trips.

Different can be a little scary, but it can also be very exciting.

If you haven’t been on a short-term missions trip, I would encourage you to go.  The experience will change your life.

Here are 3 simple ways to find out more about taking your first short-term missions trip:

  1. Find out if your local church has any plans to take a short-term missions trip in the near future.  Ask your pastor.  Ask other church goers.  If they are, attend an informational meeting about the trip.  Going to an informational meeting doesn’t mean you are going, but it’s a great way to get information about short-term missions.
  2. Attend a missions night at your church.  After I returned from short-term missions trips with my high school youth group, our group had the opportunity to share about our experiences with the congregation.  I think this was a healthy discipline for our youth group and for our church.  These missions nights gave teenagers an opportunity to keep processing their experience.  It also gave the church an opportunity to learn more, to be encouraged to keep sending teenagers to serve others, and to be inspired to go serve themselves.  This is a great reminder for us as we embark on our trip to Guatemala.  When we return, we should have some type of missions night either at our church or at our home.  People at home need to hear our story.
  3. Talk to a friend who has gone on short-term missions trips before.  A great way to learn more about missions trips is to ask someone who has gone before.  People’s experiences will all be very different, so talk to multiple people.  You will get a different flavor and different information depending on who you speak with.  (Here’s the deal though:  they won’t fully be able to relay their experience to you.  At some point, you will have to go and experience it for yourself.)  If you have any questions about going on your first short-term missions trip, you can reach out to me.  I’d be glad to help you learn more.

If you have been on a short-term missions trip, I would encourage you to go on another trip.  The experience of going again will change your perspective on many things including short-term missions.

To give you a taste of our past trips to Guatemala, here are two videos recapping each trip.  You’ll see that our experience was very different each time we went.

Have you ever gone on a short-term missions trip?  Tell me about your experience.

Have you been on more than one missions trip?  How were the trips different for you?

Ice Breaker – Twitter

Each week on The Stretched Blog, I ask an ice breaker question. The questions are designed to help us get to know each other here in The Stretched Community. I’ll provide my answer to the question here in the post, and then you can leave your response in the comments. While you’re in the comments section, see how others answered the ice breaker question.

(I’m always looking for Ice Breaker question ideas.  If you have an idea, send me an email at jon@jonstolpe.com.  If I use your question, I’ll give you credit and share your links.)

My wife is entering the world of Twitter as she seeks to establish her life coaching business.  Last night, we spent a few minutes setting up her profile.  We still have some work to do on the overall setup, but we did our part by reserving her Twitter name (@LeanneStolpe) and doing some basic setup functions.  This exercise inspired today’s Stretched Ice Breaker.  I hope you’ll chime in

Question:  Do you have a Twitter account?  Name five people you follow on Twitter.  (Or name five people you would follow if you were on Twitter.)

My Answer:  Yes.  I have a Twitter account.  You can follow me at: @jonstolpe.

I follow quite a few people, so it’s hard to narrow it down to just five.  Here are five people who I followed recently:

Answer this week’s ice breaker question by leaving a comment. I look forward to reading your response! (As always, feel free to share links.) And keep STRETCHING!

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Ten Days And Counting – Guatemala Here We Come!

T-Minus Ten Days And Counting!

In ten days, our family will be taking off from Newark International Airport on our way to Guatemala where we will be serving widows and orphans in the village of Santo Domingo Xenacoj (pronounced Shen-a-coe).  Our goal this year is to build two houses for two widows and their families.  I feel fairly convinced that we will accomplish this; however, there will be many other things that happen on this short-term missions trip which will go beyond any of our planning.  If I’ve learned one thing going to Guatemala the past two summers, it’s that flexibility is required.  God shows up and does far more than we could ever imagine on trips like this.  I’m sure we will have a chance to impact people’s lives, and I’ve also quite certain that our lives will be impacted in new ways as we make this journey.

As we prepare to embark on this journey, here are ten ways for you to pray:

  1. Pray for safety as we travel.  It’s a five-hour flight to and from Guatemala City.  And it’s a 90 minute drive from the airport to and from Xenacoj.  I don’t anticipate any problems, but your prayers for safety would be appreciated.
  2. Pray for the ministry of GO! Ministries and for missionary David Sgro.  We will be playing a small part in their overall ministry to this area.  Pray GO! Ministries would be effective in ministering.  Pray David would be encouraged.  Pray for wisdom as GO! Ministries discerns its next steps for expanding its ministry.
  3. Pray for German and his family.  German is a local man who has become part of GO! Ministries.  He and his family are the hands and feet of GO! Ministries throughout the year.  They provide on the ground support for short-term missionaries like us, and they also provide year round support to the widows and orphans in the community.  German was recently baptized, and he is studying to become a pastor.  He has the heart of a true servant, and I’m certain he would appreciate prayers for encouragement.
  4. Pray for our health.  Anytime you travel to a foreign country there is risk of sickness.  We will be living in a place where the water has different bacteria than our bodies our accustomed to.  This means we have to be extra careful with what we eat and drink if we want to avoid illness.  Last year, we each dealt with fairly mild sickness.  It would be nice to avoid this on our trip this summer.
  5. Pray for good weather while we are working.  We are heading to Guatemala during the rainy season.  We’ve been able to avoid poor weather the past two years, and we are asking for weather mercies again this year.  Good weather will help our construction efforts to go more smoothly.
  6. Pray for the family of house number one.  We don’t know all the particulars yet, but we know that this home will house a widow and two of her family members.  We pray this new home will be a springboard of hope for this small family.
  7. Pray for the family of house number two.  Again we don’t know the particulars, but we know that his home will house a widow and five of her family members.  We pray this new home will be a launchpad for this family.  We pray our efforts will point this family towards Christ and His love.
  8. Pray for the neighbors of both of these women.  They will see strange people (white and tall) helping their neighbors.  We will have an opportunity to be a lighthouse to those who live near the widows.
  9. Pray for our fellow team members.  There is a small team of two heading down to Guatemala a few days ahead of us.  They will get started on the first house.  Pray for unity and harmony as we work together and as we meet these new friends.
  10. Pray for Xenacoj.  Xenacoj is a beautiful village.  And there are many positive things happening in the village, but there is still more work to do.  Pray for the widows of the village.  There are roughly 75 widows in the village.  These are women who have lost their husbands for one reason or another.  Culturally, they are at the bottom of the barrel.  They get little help and little respect.  Thanks to GO! Ministries this is beginning to change.  Pray for the orphans of the village.  There are many kids who have been left fatherless.  Without a father, they lack guidance and provision.  They need physical and spiritual nourishment.  And pray for the leaders of the community.  They have a major influence in the village.  Pray for wisdom as they lead.  And pray that they would have open hearts to the gospel.

As we head to Guatemala, we would greatly appreciate your prayers.  With ten days to go, pick one of these things each day, and pray.  In this way, you will go with us as we serve in Xenacoj.

Will you pray?  How can we pray for you?

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