Marriage, Missions, and Marlins

It’s the weekend, and I just wanted to let you know about three cool things.

Marriage

I posted about this at the beginning of the month, but I wanted to give you a little reminder.  What ever stage or state your marriage is in, it could always use a little extra.  Family Life has teamed up with The Stretched Blog to offer a discounted rate for Stretched readers.  Simply go to the Family Life Weekend to Remember site, and register using the group code:  STRETCHED.  This will give you a significant discount on the normal rate of this conference.  Check out my original post for more details.

Missions

Today is the last day that you can pick up a free electronic copy of a new book by Seth Barnes.  Simple go to Amazon.com and search for Kingdom Journeys (Kindle Edition).  The offer is gone at the end of the day today.  For a chance to win a hard copy of the book, see my post from earlier this week.  I’ll be picking a winner early next week, so don’t miss out on this opportunity to pick up a great new book.  The book itself has a missions emphasis, but it’s about so much more than missions as you and I typically think about it.

Marlins

Don’t misunderstand me on this one, I’m a huge Phillies fan which would typically put me at odds with the Marlins.  But I have a very small place in my heart for the Marlins after reading about this story on the POTSC blog this week.  Check out this video, and I think you’ll see why:

Do you have anything that starts with the letter “M” that deserves a mention?

Ice Breaker – Lunch With A Bible Hero

Each week on The Stretched Blog, we ask an ice breaker question.  The questions are designed to help us get to know each other here in The Stretched Community.  I’ll provide my answer to the question here in the post, and then you can leave your response in the comments.  While you’re in the comments section, see how others answered the ice breaker question.

Question:  If you could have lunch with someone from the Bible (besides Jesus), who would it be?  Why?

My Answer:  I think my answer would probably change from time to time, but for right now I think it would be pretty amazing to have lunch with David.  David was known as a man after God’s own heart.  He made plenty of mistakes, but he seemed to always come back to God.  As a writer, I think it would be interesting to talk to him about his own writing.  In a way, the Psalms are kind of like a blog from ancient days, and David is responsible for writing many of these poems.  I would ask him about his faith.  I would listen as he described God.  After lunch, I’d see if we could head down to the local rock quarry, so he could teach me a thing or two about slinging stones.

There you have it – my answer.  Now, it’s your turn.  Answer this week’s ice breaker question by leaving a comment.  I look forward to reading your response!

[There’s still time to win a copy of Kingdom Journeys by Seth Barnes.  Check out my blog from Wednesday to find out how you could win. ]

I Remember When…I Dunked In A Game

I remember when I dunked in a basketball game.

When I was in junior high, I developed a love for the game of basketball.  I wasn’t even close to being one of the taller kids in the class at the time, and I hadn’t played organized basketball before.  But I signed up for the team anyway, and I made my way onto the “B” team my sixth grade year.  That year along with the other two years in junior high, I played guard.  My seventh grade year, I actually made the “A” team.  And I saw limited playing time for a team that eventually won the league championship.  In eighth grade, I started for the team as one of the guards although I may have also had playing time as a forward.

In high school, I didn’t go out for the team.  I was intimidated by the size of the upperclassmen and other taller kids in my class.  If I’m honest, I was also afraid of getting cut from the team.  I still loved the game.  I followed the Philadelphia 76ers fairly closely, and I started to follow the playing career of Michael Jordan.  I dreamed of being able to dunk the basketball someday especially late in high school as I finally began to grow.  Throughout high school, I continued to play pick up games whenever I had the chance.

When I arrived at Grove City College, I was placed in the section of the freshmen dorms where most of the basketball players lived.  I’m not sure if that was meant to further intimidate me or to spur me on to play more basketball.  I played a lot of pickup basketball games in the school gym, and I eventually started playing on intramural teams for my housing group.  As college progressed, I kept trying to dunk.  I could throw a tennis ball down fairly easily, but I struggled to palm the basketball and get high enough to actually throw down a slam.

Through the encouragement of friends, I started lifting – doing toe raises whenever possible.  Meanwhile, I kept trying to dunk.  Eventually, I got to the point where I could inch the ball over the rim.  It wasn’t a solid slam, but it was close enough at the time.  As I kept practicing, I realized that I would have to work a lot harder if I was going to get high enough and coordinated enough to actually put one down in one of the intramural games.

And so I worked, and worked, and worked some more.  I kept practicing.  I persevered and persisted until I consistently could dunk in warm ups.  My teammates knew I was getting close, and they kept talking about trying to set me up for a slam in a game.

The game finally arrived in the middle of my senior year.  Leanne was at the game as a spectator and as my girlfriend.  Somewhere in the middle of the game, the moment arrived.  Our team stole the ball, and I jumped in front of the other team on a fast break.  My teammate fed me the ball.  A few more dribbles and I was near the hoop.  As I picked up the ball, I stretched towards the basket.  With two hands, I threw the ball through the hoop, and I grabbed on to the rim.  I hung on the rim for a second or two to make sure I didn’t get undercut my the chasing players and to enjoy the moment.  As I let go of the rim, I fell to the floor landing on my to feet as the crowd went wild.

The moment was surreal.  I remember feeling as though I was floating as I ran back down the court and prepared to play defense.  What a feeling!

And that’s how I remember when I first dunked in a game.

Do you have an athletic accomplishment that sticks in your head?  Tell us about it by leaving a comment.

[There’s still time to win a copy of Kingdom Journeys by Seth Barnes.  Check out my blog from yesterday to find out how you could win. ]

WIN a New Book: Kingdom Journeys by Seth Barnes

I have the privilege of being part of the launch team for a brand new book by Seth BarnesKingdom Journeys is all about encountering God through the spiritual discipline of journeys.  As the president of Adventures in Missions, Barnes is obviously coming from a perspective that encourages missions, but Barnes also implies that kingdom journeys could simply be about going to places we need to, but don’t want to go.

Please go check out this bookBuy a copy of the book today.  Discover what it means to take kingdom journeys.

Today, I’m excited to announce that I will be giving away a copy of Kingdom Journeys to one lucky winner.  In order to win, you must do the following:

1.  Share the following on Twitter and/or Facebook:  Win a copy of Kingdom Journey by @SethBarnes! Stop by Jon Stolpe Stretched to learn more – http://ow.ly/dZZts

2.  Leave a comment here indicating you did step 1 and answering the following question:  What journey have you most recently taken?

Red Shirt Steve

When I decided to go to Guatemala, I didn’t know what I was getting myself into.  Sure, I knew that I’d be working hard in a foreign land.  I figured that the sleeping conditions would be uncomfortable.  And the people of Guatemala would be poor.  Most of my thoughts and preconceived ideas were focused on Guatemala and its people.  For the most part, I felt prepared for this new experience.

What I didn’t expect or consider was the interaction that I would have with the teenagers who came on this trip.  When we left for our trip, I barely knew the 20+ teenagers who went on the trip.  I remember gathering for our team building meetings before the trip started and for our bus trip to the airport.  I wondered how in the world I would relate to these kids who were all born after I graduated from college.  And I wondered how they would relate to me a relative stranger and an “old guy” to boot.

When we flew from Houston to Guatemala city, I sat between a window and one of the teens – Steve.  On this two and a half hour flight, Steve hardly said two sentences to me.  My pre-trip wonderings were being confirmed.  We got off the plane after our minimal conversation, and I didn’t interact with Steve much until the next afternoon.

I did my best to learn the names of the teens as quickly as possible.  There were three different guys named Steve on the trip which made my learning process extra challenging.  On our first work day, Steve from the plane was wearing a red shirt, so he soon became “Red Shirt Steve.”  I ended up calling him “Red Shirt Steve” for the rest of the trip even when he wasn’t wearing a red shirt.  On the job site, Red Shirt Steve and I worked together to pour the concrete floor and to install the wood siding on the sides of the house.  I learned that Steve is a soccer player, a senior in high school, and a hard worker.

Red Shirt Steve is on the left waiting to get the day started the first day of the trip.

Our interaction increased as the week went along.  Red Shirt Steve slept on the roof with a few of the leaders and a couple of other guys three of the nights.  As the lights were turned off in the compound and the overall noise level decreased, it was interesting to hear more about these kids.  I learned that Red Shirt Steve was interested in becoming a youth pastor.  I learned a little bit about his family.

I ran with Red Shirt Steve one morning, and I watched him play games with the other kids.  He’s clearly a great athlete and a fun guy to be around.  I couldn’t believe that this was the same guy who said two sentences to me on the plane ride at the start of the week.

Red Shirt Steve (Photo by Adam Flora)

Getting to know teenagers is kind of like peeling an onion.  There are so many layers.  It takes time and commitment to get to the center.  I had similar experiences with many of the other students on the trip.  I learned that each of these teenagers have a story that needs to be heard.  I discovered that most of the teenagers need adults like me in their lives – to listen to them, to interject into their lives, and to model for them what it means to follow Christ.

Since returning from the trip, I have started to help out with the weekly youth group gatherings.  It’s not quite the same as being with the same smaller group of kids for 9 straight days around the clock, but it’s been pretty interesting to see these kids on a different level.  I still see Red Shirt Steve from time to time.  When we see each other, there are more than two sentences exchanged.  I find out about school and soccer.  He asks about my family.  It’s pretty amazing!

Do you rub shoulders with any teenagers?  How are you investing in relationships with students?  Who invested in you when you were a teenager?

The Lost Key

Funny Pictures
Our family participated in a giant yard sale on Saturday.  Families from our H.O.P.E. service group teamed up together to raise money for facility improvements at Urban Outreach down in Washington D.C.  As part of the sale, each family gathered stuff from their own homes and brought it to a local shopping center where many hundreds of people came to find a deal.

Our family spent Friday night going through our house finding items to sell.  We found old clothes, old bikes, some books, some games, and other odds and ends.  I went out to the shed to find a few items there.  When I was done in the shed, I locked the door with our one and only shed key.  I proceeded to a few other locations in an attempt to find things before we loaded up our cars with the items to sell.

In the process of all this, I apparently misplaced the key to the shed.  I thought that I had returned the key to its normal space, but I couldn’t find it anywhere.  I think we realized it was missing Saturday morning before we left for the sale.  I looked a few places before we left, and I scoured the house when we came back from the sale later that afternoon.  After looking high and low, I realized that our key may be gone for good.

As I was reflecting on our lost key yesterday, a story from the Bible came to mind:

“Or suppose a woman has ten silver coins and loses one. Doesn’t she light a lamp, sweep the house and search carefully until she finds it?  And when she finds it, she calls her friends and neighbors together and says, ‘Rejoice with me; I have found my lost coin.’ In the same way, I tell you, there is rejoicing in the presence of the angels of God over one sinner who repents.”  Luke 15:8-10

The woman in the story throws a party after finding her lost coin.  Maybe that’s a good idea.  If we find our key, maybe we should have a party.  What do you think?

Actually, the story is referencing something far more meaningful than a key or even a coin.  The story is meant to remind us how exciting it should be when someone returns to Christ after a “lost” journey.  Yesterday, our family had an opportunity to see this fleshed out when we attended the baptism of seven individuals who decided to believe, repent, and be baptized.  Do you want to talk about a reason for celebration?  This is it!

Getting back to our shed key, it still hasn’t shown up.  I figured out a way to get into the shed in the meantime, but I think that I’ll have to cut the lock off and get a new one.  Oh well.  If nothing else, my lost shed key taught me some lessons along the way.  First, always put the shed key back in its location right away when you lock up the shed.  Second, God cares way more about people than shed keys.

What have you lost recently?  Did you find it?  If so, how did it feel?

Where are you on your journey?  Are you lost?  Or has there been a celebration for your return?

 

Partial Perspective

 Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when completeness comes, what is in part disappears. When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me. For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.

And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.

I Corinthians 13:8-13

We don’t always have the full picture.  We can only see part of it sometimes.  “When completeness comes”, we will know in full.  We will know God’s love!

What are you looking at today?  Do you see the full picture?  Or are you just seeing part of it?

Today, I’m hooking up with The Sunday Community.  Hop on over here to see what I’m talking about.

Ice Breaker – What’s For Dinner?

Each week on The Stretched Blog, we ask an ice breaker question.  The questions are designed to help us get to know each other here in The Stretched Community.  I’ll provide my answer to the question here in the post, and then you can leave your response in the comments.  While you’re in the comments section, see how others answered the ice breaker question.

Sometimes the best ice breaker questions deal with the mundane, everyday occurrences of life.  Today’s question is pretty simple, and it will be fun to see how everyone answers.

Question:  What did you have for dinner last night?

My Answer:  We are in the time of our lives when dinner is so important.  Often it is the only time that our family has to connect as we transition from busy days at work and school to homework and evening meetings and extra curricular activities.  Last night after dinner, we were running to Isaac’s Meet the Teacher Night.

For dinner, we had chicken crescent squares.  This has become one of our family’s favorites.  The recipe is made with chicken mixed with cream cheese, onion, and some other things wrapped in crescent rolls.  I’m not giving it justice in my description, but you’ll have to trust me.  It’s good!  We also had strawberry salad, and cauliflower with cheese.  Finally, we had watermelon to even things out.  All in all, I a great meal at home!

There you have it – my answer.  Now, it’s your turn.  Answer this week’s ice breaker question by leaving a comment.  I look forward to reading your response!

I Remember When…I Broke My Arm

I remember when I broke my arm.  It was just a couple of days into first grade, and my family was attending a church picnic at a local park in the Wheaton, Illinois area.  I have always enjoyed climbing trees, so it was no surprise that I would be climbing an apple tree during this picnic.  I was about four feet off the ground in this particular apple tree when I somehow slipped and fell to the ground.  I must have landed funny, because something in my right arm hurt.

After resting at one of the picnic tables for a little while, my parents showed my arm to someone at the picnic who was a nurse.  She thought it would be best if my parents took me to the hospital.

When I arrived at the hospital, the X-rays showed a hairline fracture in my right wrist.  This meant a plaster cast all the way up to my shoulder.  I’m not sure why it had to go so high, but it was the late 70s.  What do you expect?

Initially, it was kind of cool to have a cast.  All my friends and classmates got to sign my cast.  My school pictures were taken with the cast (see above).  And I got special attention and help to complete my school work.  I think those cool things wore off quickly as I was forced to sit out of gym class.  Bath times were pretty awkward with one arm sitting out of the tub.  And as a right-hander, it wasn’t easy to write.

Six weeks after I broke my arm, I went back to the doctor where they sawed off the cast.  The saw was a little scary, but I quickly learned that it didn’t hurt.  When they took the cast off, my skin was pretty nasty.  What had been tanned from the summer sun was now pealing.

Besides a chip fracture to my ankle, I haven’t had a broken bone since.  And that’s okay!

Have you ever broken a bone?  Tell us about it!