A month ago, I attended the Foundation Leadership Program with 22 other colleagues from North and South America. (To read more about my experience, click here.) It was the best week I’ve had in my 20+ years with the company. One of my biggest takeaways from the experience relates to how I coach others.
Coaching others isn’t about giving the answers.
Coaching is about helping others discover the answers for themselves.
I’m a fixer, so I naturally want to dive in and figure out the exact steps necessary to overcome a challenge. Here’s the problem: Our team members don’t need a fixer. They don’t need someone else to do the work for them. They don’t need someone to do the thinking for them. When we as leaders jump in to fix things, we take away valuable opportunities for our team members to think for themselves and to take action.
As leaders, we need to give our team members the opportunity to learn, to think, to take action, to succeed, and to fail.
To effectively coach our team members, we should use the GROW Model for handling the discussions with our team members.
Here’s what Wikipedia has to say about the GROW Model:
There have been many claims to authorship of GROW as a way of achieving goals and solving problems. While no one person can be clearly identified as the originator, Graham Alexander, Alan Fine, and Sir John Whitmore all made significant contributions. Max Landsberg also describes GROW in his book The Tao of Coaching. Other similar models include collaborative helping maps in family therapy and Gabriele Oettingen‘s WOOP model.
This is what I learned in my leadership program:
Who are you leading? Maybe you are leading in your business or place of employment. Maybe you are leading in your community. Or maybe you are leading in your home.
Whatever the case may be, it’s time for you to help your team members GROW (or STRETCH as I like to say). Learn to become a better coach, and discover a path to greater success among those you lead.
If you’re looking for more ways to STRETCH yourself, sign up TODAY for the 7 Week Stretch Challenge: