This is one of the best books I’ve read in a long time.
How’s that for a statement?
Seriously, I just finished reading QBQ! The Question Behind the Question: Practicing Personal Accountability at Work and in Life by John G. Miller, and I thought it was great. I had heard about the book from several people before, but I didn’t pick it up until recently.
I read a lot of books about leadership. I’ve read books which tell me how to lead my team through this situation or that situation. I’ve read books which tell me how to handle difficult team members and team members with different types of personalities. These books are good, but this QBQ! took it to another level for me.
QBQ! is all about leading myself. The book is not terribly long, and it’s broken down into bite-sized chapters which make it easy to get through. I’m a slow reader, and I read through QBQ! in a few sittings. It kept my attention and left me with lots plenty to ponder. I underlined and highlighted many parts of this book, and I’ll be referring to it again and again to help me become a better leader and a better person.
QBQ! challenges readers to stop complaining, procrastinating, and blaming. It stretches readers to practice personal accountability by asking the right questions.
Here are some of the questions I took away from QBQ!:
- What can I do to make a difference?
- How can I support my team?
- What can I do to help out?
- How can I provide more value?
- How can I adapt to the changing world?
- What could I have done differently?
- How can I learn from this experience?
- How can I let go of what I can’t control?
- How can I appreciate people’s gifts and strengths just as they are?
- How can I practice the principles I espouse?
- How can I set a better example?
- How can I set good boundaries?
- How can I be a more effective coach?
- What can I do to better understand each person I manage?
- How can I build a stronger team?
- How can I be a better leader?
- What can I do to show I care?
- How can I communicate more effectively?
- What can I do to be more productive?
- What can I do to develop myself?
- How can I become more engaged?
I learned so much through QBQ!, and I would recommend this as a resource for anyone who wants to take their leadership and their relationships to the next level.
Have you read QBQ!? If so, what was one of your biggest lessons learned?
If you could ask any question of yourself, what would it be?
(Please note: I received a copy of QBQ! for free as part of a giveaway. I was not required to provide a favorable review. I truly believe this book can be a helpful reminder to any reader in helping them to take steps to become better leaders – at work, in the community, at church, and at home.
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