Digital Detox … I’m Back From Vacation

I’m back!

Vacation to South Carolina was wonderful.  I truly enjoyed the break from just about everything.  If you followed along.  I used the time of vacation to take a break from the block and just about everything social media and digitally related.

What did that mean?

Well, here’s a rundown:

  • The Stretched Blog had the worst week of traffic ever.
  • The Jon Stolpe Stretched Facebook Fanpage “People Reached” statistic dropped by over half.
  • My Klout score dropped by a point.
  • My Empire Avenue “stock value” dropped by 3e.
  • I missed out on many new blog posts.
  • I fell behind on my e-mail both personally and for work.
  • Essentially, I lost ground – from a digital perspective.

But…

  • I spent uninterrupted time with my family.
  • I enjoyed floating in a lazy river.
  • I read most of Bob Goff’s book, Love Does.
  • I played in the warm ocean waves of Surfside Beach, SC.
  • I sat on the beach – and I even got a little sun tan and some sun burn.
  • I played miniature golf at a cool course in Myrtle Beach, SC.
  • I slept in.
  • I ran along the ocean.
  • I laughed, lived, and created new memories with my wife and kids.

So was the digital detox worth it?

Absolutely.  It was a bit of a challenge at first.  I haven’t taken a real break from the blog in about a year.  And I’ve certainly plugged into social media and to many other blogs over the past few years that I’ve tracked and added to on a nearly daily basis.  But as the week went along, it became a bit easier.  I really needed the rest, and I especially needed the time to focus completely on my family.

I’m still processing what that means for the future.  I still intend to write every day.  I still intend to be engaged through social media.  But I need to find the right balance.  This time of digital detox was a great reminder.

Will I do this again?

Well, actually, yes.  I won’t have a choice in just over a week.  I’ll be heading to Guatemala with my daughter on our church’s high school missions trip.  I’ll be unplugged for just over a week.  But, it will be okay.  I have a couple of great guest bloggers lined up.  (I could use a couple more if you’re interested!)  Besides, I’ll be hanging out with my daughter doing some great things!

All in all, I’d recommend an occasional digital detox.  It will give you new perspective.  I will give you more opportunity to get back to living.  It will still be here when you get back.  Go for it!

Have you ever taken time for a digital detox?  How did it go?  Was it difficult or easy to let go of everything?  What did you learn from the experience?

(What was your favorite repost that ran over the past week or so?)

  • http://deuceology.wordpress.com Larry Carter

    Jon, I’m glad you had a great time with your family.  I love staying in Surfside.  Did you go down to Murrel’s Inlet to eat?  We love to go in that direction to eat a couple of times every time we are there.
    That being said, I’m up for a guest post, if your don’t mind a repeat guest post.

    • http://jonstolpe.com/ Jon Stolpe

       Larry, So cool to hear that you’ve been to Surfside.  It’s too bad we couldn’t meet up there.  I ran towards Murrel’s Inlet, but I didn’t make it all the way there.  Maybe next time.  I should have asked you about restaurants down there.  We ate at the King Crab – which was just okay.

      I’d love to have you guest post again!!!  Is there anyway you could have something to me by the end of the week?

      • http://deuceology.wordpress.com Larry Carter

        Absolutely. I’ve got one I want to write that is slightly out of the box for me. It might stretch me a bit. :)

        • http://jonstolpe.com/ Jon Stolpe

           Sounds perfect already!

  • http://www.jmlalonde.com Joe Lalonde

    That’s awesome you were able to take the time away from your blog and all things digital. Sometimes we just need to do it. I know it’ll be more than worth it in the long run.

    I’ve tried to take a digital detox before but I struggled with it due to having a smart phone. It’s so easy to hop online and check this or that out.

    • http://jonstolpe.com/ Jon Stolpe

       I’ll confess that I checked my blog traffic a few times – thanks to my Blackberry.  I also checked in at a few placed on Foursquare.  But for the most part, I was able to set it down.  My wife was even surprised when I didn’t have my phone with me when we went to the zoo in Columbia, SC.

  • http://www.leahadams.org/ Leah Adams

    I just took one….and it was good. Two weeks. I still did Facebook, but virtually no blogging except for one post of vacation pics. The world did not end. I’m at a place right now where I’m struggling to find words…to write. So, I’m just waiting on God to give me words. Not sure how long I’ll be in the waiting room for words, but I’m not moving ahead until the Lord says it is time.

    • http://jonstolpe.com/ Jon Stolpe

       I’ll look forward to reading what comes next!

  • http://tcavey.blogspot.com/ TCAvey

    so glad you had the break. you will need it for your upcoming mission trip.

    I recently took a week off. I thought it would be hard to let go, but it was easy.
    In fact, when I returned I had a whole new perspective on my stats- I don’t care. This is God’s blog. I will be faithful to do my part and trust Him to do His.
    It’s been liberating.
    I think it’s been a week since I checked my stats- it used to be daily. 

    • http://jonstolpe.com/ Jon Stolpe

      I know what you mean; although, I’ve always been a big numbers guy.  The next few weeks should be interesting as I won’t even have access to my numbers.

      • http://tcavey.blogspot.com/ TCAvey

        LOL, it will be interesting for you! But you have guest posts lined up- so your numbers should stay about normal.

  • Trek23rider

    I don’t have access to all the stats you stated Jon so I have no clue about any of that.  (I am technologically challenged).  However, I have taken a weekend or two away and found less traffic.  I took one week where I highlighted other blogs for the whole week while gone and traffic dropped as the week went on.  but I do not regret it.  If I am that tied to it, then I am its slave.  I know what the Bible says about that.  Glad you took the time off. More glad you are taking the week to go with your daughter.  

    • http://jonstolpe.com/ Jon Stolpe

      Yes, Bill!  It should be an interesting adventure.

  • http://www.eileenknowles.com Eileen

    Jon, welcome back!  The breaks are necessary.  And, it’s completely worth the number dips because I am constantly being reminded that the numbers shouldn’t matter.  Numbers leave us empty.  But relationships fill us up!

    • http://jonstolpe.com/ Jon Stolpe

      Amen!  (But sometimes hard to get through an engineer’s mind – like mine.)

  • Mom Stolpe

    Experiencing God’s creation and being with your family is better than anything digital!  Have a good week as you and Hannah prepare for your mission trip:)  Love you all, Mom

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